To the editor: Youth sports are supposed to be about fairness, development and opportunity.
They are meant to teach teamwork, discipline and resilience — lessons that carry children far beyond the playing field. But recent decisions by the Berkshire County Youth Football League (BCYFL) raise troubling questions about whether those values are being upheld in our community.
A local player was recently stripped of his waiver to play at the junior level, and the reasoning behind this decision has shifted multiple times. At first, the explanation was that another child had been injured. Now, the justification is that this athlete is “too good.” Since when is excelling in youth sports something to punish?
This player had already been restricted to the line after previously playing quarterback — a completely new and challenging position for him. He has been learning and adapting, not dominating unfairly. Yet his waiver was revoked, while inconsistent rule enforcement continues elsewhere. In fact, we were told that a 12-year-old player on another team would be restricted. But once again, just this past Sunday, she played unrestricted and carried the ball. Meanwhile, the aforementioned child has been penalized. Requests to review the game footage that supposedly led to his revocation have gone unanswered, raising real concerns about transparency and accountability.
Is this what we want youth sports to become: a place where children are punished for excelling while rules are bent for others? While some families might technically have the option to move their child to another team, that is not realistic for many — especially those with multiple children enrolled. Parents should not be asked to split themselves between towns or choose which child’s game to attend simply because one was deemed “too good.”
Football in Berkshire County is already struggling to survive. Decisions like this don’t just hurt one child; they discourage families, undermine trust and push people away from a sport that should be building community.
The BCYFL must do better. Rules should be applied consistently. Transparency must be a priority. No child should ever be penalized for talent, effort or commitment.
Parents, coaches and community members: speak up. Attend league meetings, ask questions and demand accountability. If we remain silent, we risk losing not just players but the very future of football in our community.
Preston Houghtlin, North Adams





