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Oxfordian: Divas in the Outfield: The Story of Oxford Diamond Divas

Story by HaLeigh AbbottPhotos courtesy of Shannon Van Zyl In January 2017, what began as a simple desire to improve a struggling Little League softball team has blossomed into one of Oxford’s most inspiring youth sports success stories. The Oxford Diamond Divas, created by Bob Van Zyl with help from the late Nick Sloan, has […]

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Photos courtesy of Shannon Van Zyl

In January 2017, what began as a simple desire to improve a struggling Little League softball team has blossomed into one of Oxford’s most inspiring youth sports success stories. The Oxford Diamond Divas, created by Bob Van Zyl with help from the late Nick Sloan, has transformed from a winter training program into a comprehensive softball organization that’s reshaping the future of girls’ softball in the community.

The journey began when Van Zyl and Sloan, unhappy with the direction of the area Little League, decided to extend Van Zyl’s high school winter workout program to younger players. What they expected to be a modest turnout of 15 girls quickly grew to 17 on the first night, and within a month, swelled to 40 young athletes eager to improve their skills.

However, tragedy struck just three weeks into the program when Nick Sloan was killed in a car accident, leaving Van Zyl to carry on alone. “I had already started it, so I kept going for him,” Van Zyl reflects. “I only knew him for a few months, but I saw all of the good he was able to do.” Rob Logan, a friend of Nick’s, stepped in to help for the next two years, helping to establish the program’s foundation.

The organization found its footing in the Brandywine Valley Girls Softball League, starting with 10U and 12U teams. Success came quickly – by 2018, the 12U team went undefeated in the BVGSL. Many of those same players would later form the core of Oxford High School’s 2023 district championship team, which made two appearances in the state tournament. “I tend to forecast where things are going,” Van Zyl notes, “and in 8th grade when I was coaching the middle school, I saw this team and said they’re special and they’re going to dominate.”

Today, the Diamond Divas boasts an impressive 126 registered players, with 80-85 participating in recreational leagues and 36 in tournament play. The program offers opportunities for girls aged 5-16 in recreational ball, with tournament teams at the 10U, 14U, and 18U levels. Plans are already in place to add a 12U tournament team next fall.

What sets the Diamond Divas apart is their unwavering focus on girls’ softball. “When I first started it, people would ask what the difference between us and Little League is, and the answer is we don’t do baseball,” Van Zyl explains. “We focus completely on softball, so 100% of the money goes towards the softball players. I always felt like girls sports would get the short end of the stick next to boys sports, and I wanted to prevent that from happening.”

This dedication to excellence extends to every aspect of the program, from high-quality uniforms to specialized training. But perhaps most meaningful is the organization’s emphasis on family, symbolized by the word “Ohana” emblazoned on every jersey – a tribute to Nick Sloan’s legacy and the program’s founding principles.

The origin of this tradition is particularly touching. After Sloan’s passing, Van Zyl personally called every parent to ensure their children wouldn’t hear the news at school. Practice continued the next day because, as Van Zyl puts it, “Nick wouldn’t want us to cancel our workouts.” During that emotional session, the group discussed the importance of leaning on each other as family, referencing the concept of “Ohana” from the movie “Lilo & Stitch.” The word, along with Nick’s initials, was incorporated into the team’s logo and has become their battle cry at the end of every game.

The Diamond Divas’ commitment to inclusivity is evident in their approach to both recreational and tournament play. “Tournament ball is a luxury and a higher level of softball than rec, but the heart of the program is still in the rec teams. It creates a strong base for the softball community,” Van Zyl emphasizes. The organization welcomes players of all experience levels and even provides equipment for those who need it. Their reach extends beyond Oxford’s borders, welcoming players from throughout the region.

The program’s growth led to the creation of Southern Chester County Sports, a facility born out of necessity during COVID-19 when school facilities were unavailable. This space now serves multiple sports programs and hosts community events, further cementing the Diamond Divas’ role in local athletics.

Van Zyl, sometimes playfully known as “Coach Cheater” for his practice antics like intentionally throwing balls over players’ heads (resulting in good-natured extra push-ups), maintains that success isn’t measured solely by athletic achievement. “It doesn’t matter if you make great athletes 100% of the time,” he says. “My measure of success is when a kid is having fun and enjoying the sport and they’re making good memories.”

As the Oxford Diamond Divas continues to grow, it stands to show how a community’s commitment to its youth can create something truly special. With its blend of competitive excellence, family values, and inclusive spirit, the organization is not just developing better softball players – it’s building stronger, more confident young women who understand the true meaning of “Ohana.”



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The Rod and Greg Show: Are Youth Sports Hurting Families? Defunding NPR an | Talk Radio 105.9 – KNRS

The Rod and Greg Show Daily Rundown – Wednesday, May 7, 2025 4:20 pm: Jason Johnson, President of the Law Enforcement Legal Defense Fund joins Rod and Greg to discuss his piece for the New York Post on how defunding the police led to an increase in the murder rate in America’s largest cities. 4:38 […]

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The Rod and Greg Show Daily Rundown – Wednesday, May 7, 2025

4:20 pm: Jason Johnson, President of the Law Enforcement Legal Defense Fund joins Rod and Greg to discuss his piece for the New York Post on how defunding the police led to an increase in the murder rate in America’s largest cities.

4:38 pm: Washington Examiner Senior Writer David Harsanyi joins the program for a conversation about his piece on how the argument for defunding PBS and NPR is about more than just the left-leaning bias of the media outlets.

5:05 pm: Diane Schrader, a blogger for She Speaks Truth, joins the show to discuss her recent piece in The Blaze about how families should stop sacrificing their children’s youth, and the family unit, in the pursuit of youth sports.

6:38 pm: Lexi Lonas Cochran, Education Reporter for The Hill, joins the show for a conversation about how the Trump administration has ended student loan forgiveness and garnishment of wages is on the table as a way for the government to collect on those debts.





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Nike & Studio You Respond to Decline in Girls’ PE Engagement

Studio You and Nike are teaming up to reimagine the U.K.’s one-size-fits-all PE model with a more inclusive, girl-led approach to movement Studio You, England’s digital exercise platform for teenage girls, has partnered with Nike to launch a video series of more than 100 bite-sized lessons with tips and guidance for young girls and gym […]

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Studio You and Nike are teaming up to reimagine the U.K.’s one-size-fits-all PE model with a more inclusive, girl-led approach to movement

Studio You, England’s digital exercise platform for teenage girls, has partnered with Nike to launch a video series of more than 100 bite-sized lessons with tips and guidance for young girls and gym teachers to inspire confidence and enjoyment in physical activity.

At the heart of the initiative—supported by This Girl Can and funded by The National Lottery—is a commitment to reimagining physical education through a more personalized and inclusive lens. The effort comes amid data from the Youth Sport Trust showing a 30% decline in girls’ enjoyment of PE between the ages of 8 and 16.

“We’re flipping the script on what we presume girls want from PE, with girls’ voices and choices allowing them to lead the way in what they want their lessons to look like,” senior campaign activation manager Dani Ward said in a release. “Traditional sports and competitive activities may engage some girls, but a one-size-fits-all approach is leaving behind the 55% of teenage girls who aren’t meeting their recommended activity levels. Working with both girls and PE teachers, Studio You and Nike aim to inspire positive behaviour change, helping more girls develop a love for movement, for life.” 

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According to research from Studio You and Nike, the majority (87%) of girls who had a negative experience in PE disliked their typical gym options, and 81% reported a lack of confidence in participating. 

On the bright side, many girls are clear about what motivates them to move.

Among girls surveyed, dance (39%) and fitness/workouts (29%) ranked as the top preferred activities. Fun emerged as a powerful driver, with half of all girls reporting they feel most excited and energized when enjoying themselves during a PE class. The majority (79%) of girls say they value fun in gym class, while inclusion (59%) and an engaging teacher (53%) are also important factors. Among those who disliked PE, 68% found the lessons too difficult, and 34% prefer a more gradual approach to learning new activities.

“Nike is committed to powering the future of youth sport because an active next generation means a healthier and more equitable future for all kids,” Nike’s global GM of future of youth sport, Dan Burrows, said. “We know girls, especially, face complex cultural and social barriers to getting and staying active. Our partnership to launch the Studio You x Nike hub will continue to advance the platform’s proven results to increase girls’ participation and is vital to creating a future where all girls can enjoy their PE experience.” 

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The new sessions were shaped directly by girls themselves, drawing on insights from a national survey, small focus groups and a core team of girls who co-designed the content. Studio You and Nike also partnered with Disability Sports Coach to ensure the inclusion of disabled trainers to demonstrate adaptive movements. In addition to fitness and movement, the initiative also highlights mental fitness, meditation and breathwork.

Teachers can access the U.K.-based platform here. 

Beyond the classroom, Nike is hosting its 2025 After Dark Tour, inviting women to race safely at night in 10Ks and half marathons across global cities including Sydney, Shanghai, Seoul, Mumbai, London, Los Angeles and Mexico City.





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Six moms whose kids became professional sports stars share their secrets

The moms of Jordan Spieth, Jaxon Smith-Njigba, Jason Robertson, Bobby Witt Jr., Tyrese Maxey and Jaedyn Shaw discuss what it’s like to raise a star athlete. DALLAS — Tune into WFAA+ at 7 p.m. on Wednesday, May 7, to watch the entire “The Panel with Jonah Javad: A Mother’s Day Special” with WFAA’s Jonah Javad […]

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The moms of Jordan Spieth, Jaxon Smith-Njigba, Jason Robertson, Bobby Witt Jr., Tyrese Maxey and Jaedyn Shaw discuss what it’s like to raise a star athlete.

DALLAS — Tune into WFAA+ at 7 p.m. on Wednesday, May 7, to watch the entire “The Panel with Jonah Javad: A Mother’s Day Special” with WFAA’s Jonah Javad and the moms of pro athletes Jordan Spieth, Jaxon Smith-Njigba, Jason Robertson, Bobby Witt Jr., Tyrese Maxey and Jaedyn Shaw. The show will also be available to watch on-demand after its initial airing.

Raising a young athlete is no small feat. It’s a full-time job that involves the entire family, countless hours of travel, emotional highs and lows, and maintaining the delicate balance of parenting, partnership and personal sanity.

That’s not just conjecture, either. Rather, it’s wisdom that comes straight from the source — moms who’ve helped usher their children up the ranks from youth recreational leagues to pro sports.

In advance of Mother’s Day, we gathered six mothers of highly successful professional athletes – from the NFL to the PGA Tour – to sit down together at the Kessler Theatre in Dallas for a candid conversation about their experiences and their advice for young parents.

One theme rang clear throughout our discussion: There is no playbook, but there are lessons learned.

Here are the seven biggest takeaways from the conversation.


Don’t look for a roadmap, just embrace the journey

The path to sports success is never linear. That much, every mom we spoke with agreed upon.

Another thing these moms concurred on: The idea of having your child solely focus on one sport didn’t apply to their kids’ success. Rather than a singular focus, these moms’ kids tried everything.

“My son Jordan [Spieth] played every sport,” recalled Christine Spieth, mother of PGA Tour golfer and Dallas native Jordan Spieth. “Whatever the season was — soccer, basketball, baseball. Golf was just something he did in between. He didn’t start focusing on it until he was 11 or 12.”

The consensus? Let kids be kids. Expose them to different activities, and follow their lead when they begin to show signs that they’re “serious.”

“The work ethic, the competitive spirit, all the things were there that I could see being a mom,” noted Laurie Witt, mother of MLB All-Star and Colleyville native Bobby Witt Jr.

Added Denyse Maxey, mother of NBA All-Star and Garland native Tyrese Maxey: “The way we frame it, my husband and I both, is: ‘When did you know that Tyrese [Maxey] was serious? When did you know he was serious?’ And then we give a couple of examples of things that he did that showed his over-competitiveness and [we thought], ‘OK, now we think he’s serious and now he may have a shot.’”


Nurture all your kids, not just the star athlete

For families with multiple children, keeping a household emotionally balanced when is critical. This is especially true when one of the kids in the family is a sports prodigy. And it’s something that each of the moms we spoke with emphasized.  

“Every child has their own thing,” Maxey said of her family. “When they find their niche, support it as fiercely as you supported the athlete.”

And if one sibling does rise to prominence? Humility at home matters.

“No one was ever number one in our house,” Spieth explained. “If you walked into my house now, there are no golf trophies. There are no basketball trophies. It’s just a house where three kids grew up.”

Maxey echoed the importance of that sentiment.

“I do agree; no one’s ever number one,” Maxey said. “Everyone’s treated equally. It doesn’t matter what age they are. If they mouth off, they’re going to get it.”

Added Ann Shaw, mom of rising U.S. women’s soccer star and Frisco native Jaedyn Shaw: “[My kids] see it. They know the energy that comes from me is equal to all of them. That’s how we keep the emotional flow in our house.”

“I think what’s important is that we involve the other kids with what everybody else is doing — not, ‘This is the schedule, and that’s it,'” noted Mercedes Robertson, mother of NHL stars Jason and Nicolas Robertson. “You have to kind of foster it. You have to really nurture that bond. Because that’s what’s going to help them as adults when you’re not around them daily.”


Self-care isn’t optional — it’s essential

There’s no denying the emotional toll that raising a pro athlete can put on mothers and the “team behind the team.” Which is why it’s important, the moms said, to not let own needs often came last.

“We tend to put ourselves in the back and we don’t take care of ourselves,” Maxey said. “We don’t take care of our mental needs, we don’t take care of our physical needs. And what I have learned is there has to be a balance. So if I had to tell my younger self something — when I first got married and started having children — it’s, ‘Denyse, take care of you, too.’ That’s what I would tell any young mother in this position where her child or children are trending in that direction to be a professional athlete.”

Whatever that self-care looks like for the parent, it’s not indulgent — it’s necessary.

Sharing responsibilities among both parents, focusing on the strength of a marriage and keeping tabs on the larger family sacrifice all play a vital part in success as well.

The Shaw family, for example, has moved twice now — to San Diego and North Carolina — to follow Jaedyn Shaw as she embarked on her professional career. That kind of commitment, Ann said, needs to be balanced with others.

“[My husband and I] run 100 miles an hour trying to get [the kids] everywhere,” she said. “But don’t forget about your spouse. We make sure to have a date night every two weeks. It keeps you connected when you’re constantly dividing and conquering.”

Indeed, the “divide and conquer” concept was a common theme throughout the discussion.

“In our case, we had a golfer [Jordan], a basketball player [Steven Spieth] who played in college and a couple of years in Europe, and a special needs daughter at home who’s eight years younger than Jordan,” Christine Spieth said. “We had to divide and conquer. My husband knew more about golf. I know nothing about golf — I’m just gonna make that clear, don’t play it, know nothing about it, even though I have a golfer. But I stayed back and did the AAU [basketball] tournaments with my son because my daughter can’t take the noise. She just can’t be on a golf course because she’s unpredictable and you have to be quiet. So, we divided and conquered. And now we’re all back together.”

Jami Smith, mother of NFL Pro Bowl receiver and Rockwall native Jaxon Smith-Njigba, said she’s still struggling with prioritizing her own needs.

“I’m probably still struggling with that balance, but I think it kind of works for me to not be balanced, to be able to roll with what’s happening,” said Smith, whose other son Canaan is also a pro athlete, having played two seasons of Major League Baseball. “[We] try not to overly plan what’s happening, especially with kids in multiple sports and in multiple journeys.”


Your child’s mental health matters more than any rankings

Success breeds jealousy. And jealousy breeds unsolicited comments and rude behavior.

Dealing with trolls and critics and haters can thicken the skin of the athlete in some cases, sure. But not all children are prepared for that mental and emotional toll when it comes, so it’s important for parents to keep tabs on their kids’ mental well-being, and not just their physical talents.

”The hardest part was they come out with rankings in high school and [Bobby] got ranked number one,” said Laurie Witt. “So, every game, [opposing fans] would be yelling ‘Overrated!’ It bothered me. It bothered his sisters. Bobby Jr. said it didn’t bother him as much as it really did bother me seeing other parents being really not nice. Even a grandmother one time at a playoff game said to my daughter, ‘I hope he strikes out. He’s not good. He’s overrated.’ To my daughter!”

But overly coddling a star young athlete can also lead to problems. So Shaw makes it a point to keep things level with her daughter no matter the situation.

“Sometimes I’ll treat her like my normal daughter even when she’s overwhelmed by the cameras and media,” Shaw said. “I think it gives her relief — like she can just be.”

The moms agreed that moments of emotional grounding like that were often what helped their children remain resilient.


It takes a village, but you should still keep your circle tight

As a child’s talent grows, so does outside interest in their possible fame — and that can get messy quickly.

“Once your child is identified as a potential pro, the vultures are coming,” Maxey warned. “You have to keep your circle very tight. We were very specific: ‘You do not go to our son. If you contact him directly, you’re out — whether you’re a coach, an agent, anyone.'”

To avoid issues, the moms created rules around contact and communication, and scheduled specific windows when coaches could talk with their child. These boundaries helped preserve these families’ authority and protect their children’s focus.

Youth sports are rarely isolated activities. And having a support system — family or not — can help lighten the mental load during frantic moments.

“Being such a young mom, you’re so caught up in the sacrifice of how am I gonna pay for this? How am I gonna get them there?,” Smith said. “I’m so fortunate for the great teammates that we had, the connections, the families — it’s who you celebrate your holidays with.”


Find purpose in the chaos

Raising a pro athlete means constant travel, nonstop practicing and very little down time. But it’s important, too, to take stock of all your family has accomplished together.

Said Robertson: “Within that organized chaos, pick a few moments to make it all make sense and worth the journey.”

The travel, the financial investment, the missed family events — it’s all-consuming. But, for these moms, it also created lifelong memories and purpose.

“Control what you can, make do with what you have available and just go with it,” Robertson added. “I think a lot has to do with the passion they have. A lot of times, you have to remind them that they made a commitment for the year. There are a lot of sacrifices made, not just individually but as a family. And you have to remind them as a parent, I’m not your best friend. Sometimes they’re mad at you, but the passion and their dream keeps them focused. That’s what our jobs as parents have to be.”


Remember: Your child is more than an athlete

In a world of cameras, contracts and constant comparison, the ultimate goal these mothers share is striving to keep their children grounded.

As they raised their children to greatness, these moms never lost sight of what mattered most: family, love and balance.

“I always tell my kids: soccer is what Jaedyn does,” said Shaw. “It’s not who she is.”



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Teens Spread Kindness Through Original Winter Fashion Creations

Emely, Amir, Trinity, Lily were abuzz waiting for Christel Araujo, a professor at the Fashion Institute of Technology, to lead a new workshop at the Children’s Aid at the Lexington Academy. Organized by The Coca-Cola Company, all the teens knew for sure was that they were in for an unforgettable experience. Araujo started the workshop […]

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Emely, Amir, Trinity, Lily were abuzz waiting for Christel Araujo, a professor at the Fashion Institute of Technology, to lead a new workshop at the Children’s Aid at the Lexington Academy.

Organized by The Coca-Cola Company, all the teens knew for sure was that they were in for an unforgettable experience. Araujo started the workshop by sharing her nearly two-decade career in the fashion industry. It was a masterclass squeezed into an afternoon, covering the art of fashion design, design briefs, color research and branding.

Then, it was the teens’ turn to get creative. Tasked with producing their own designs, the teens received a single prompt from Araujo: “What does kindness look like?”

With that, they set to work on their designs. Along the way, Araujo offered her guidance, encouraging each teen to lean into their own brand of creativity.

“I had never thought of myself as a designer, so it was amazing to see my concept come to life,” says Emely, who studies software development at her high school.

The staff at Children’s Aid East Harlem Community Center were just as intrigued.

“First came the doodling,” says Marjorie “Midge” Caparosa, a program director, arts initiatives at Children’s Aid. “But as they drew, I watched them slowly start to gain a better understanding of what it means to spread kindness. We also connected with Christel, who happens to be an alumna of the same fashion design high school that two of our students will be attending High School of Fashion Industries in New York City.”

After the workshop, Araujo showed the teen designers how to refine their drawings and enhance their concepts using digital manipulation programs.

Their hard work paid off when Trinity, Amir and Lilly’s designs were selected for a cozy new line of winter hats, gloves and socks. During the colder months, shoppers were able to stock up on these accessories in the “Kindness Shoppe” inside Coca-Cola’s traveling Holiday Caravan. The caravan travelled coast-to-coast making stops in Boston, Atlanta, Chicago, Dallas, Portland, Los Angeles and many other big cities, showcasing the teens designs to thousands of people around the country. But the teens’ journey wasn’t over yet.

5 East Harlem teens spread kindness by debuting original designs at Coca-Cola’s Holiday Caravan.

Seeing Designs Realized: A Trip to the Rose Bowl

A few months later, Trinity, Amir and Lilly boarded a plane to Los Angeles to see their designs in person. They attended Coca-Cola’s Holiday Caravan kickoff event, where their new “Kindness-inspired” winter accessories debuted at the Rose Bowl stadium.

“When they saw the final versions of their designs on the finished products, I was so pleased,” says Midge.

“The kids’ designs were truly professional. And having their work represented on this scale made them feel more confident and prouder of their creations.”

At the event, the teens participated in exclusive meet-and-greets with Los Angeles-based DJ duo Ship Wrek as well as Bobby Finke, an Olympic gold medalist in swimming, and Jordyn Barratt, a skateboarder who most recently represented America at the Tokyo Olympics in 2020.

“I never dreamed I’d have the chance to be a part of something like the Coca-Cola Holiday Caravan,” says Trinity, who has been a Boys & Girls Club kid since kindergarten.

For the rest of the trip, the teens had a blast choosing and visiting their must-see L.A. destinations. From exploring a local university and eating out at West Coast restaurants, to seeing the Hollywood sign and the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

“The Kindness Project was an unforgettable, motivating experience that taught me to work hard and spread kindness as I go,” Amir says

2 East Harlem teens spread kindness by debuting original designs at Coca-Cola’s Holiday Caravan.

Launching Future Careers with Confidence

Boys & Girls Clubs of America partners like The Coca-Cola Company make these skill-building and scene-changing experiences possible for millions of kids. Stepping out of the classroom and into a new environment can unlock a world of growth for young people. Embracing messages of kindness also encourages kids to engage openly with people whose life experiences differ from their own.

“For kids from East Harlem, going to California was a huge adventure. It was a bonding experience I don’t think would have happened back in New York,” says Midge. “They grew so much from the experience. It felt like everyone embraced their best self on this trip, comfortable and confident.”

While Trinity, Amir and Lilly’s career paths may diverge from fashion design, the critical thinking and project management skills they gained will be invaluable in any career. Lilly, who plans to become a veterinarian, agrees.

“The trip was a magical experience,” Lilly says. “I love that I got to be with my friends, meet new people and use creativity to promote kindness.”

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For more than 75 years, The Coca-Cola Company has worked to strengthen local communities through its partnership with Boys & Girls Clubs of America (BGCA). As a founding sponsor of Boys & Girls Clubs of America’s Workforce Readiness Strategy, The Coca-Cola Company’s investment supports essential skill development, career exploration, employability skills and credentialing, and work-based learning opportunities for youth at 5,400 Clubs nationwide. Together, we’re helping to close the opportunity and job readiness gap by preparing the over 3 million youth who visit Clubs every day to become the future American workers, leaders and innovators of tomorrow.

Opening Doors to Brighter Futures

Being successful isn’t just about avoiding failure — it’s about turning setbacks into steppingstones. At Boys & Girls Clubs of America, we’re dedicated to helping young people build that same resilience. Through our life and workforce readiness programs, we provide the mentorship and real-world experiences youth need to transform challenges into opportunities.



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Executive Jason Wright on investing in women’s and youth sports

The CNBC Sport videocast brings you interviews with the biggest names in the business. In this week’s episode, CNBC’s Brian Sullivan sits down Jason Wright, managing partner and head of investments at Ariel Project Level, a venture of Ariel Investments. They discuss Project Level’s investments in women’s and youth sports, the untapped potential in the […]

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The CNBC Sport videocast brings you interviews with the biggest names in the business. In this week’s episode, CNBC’s Brian Sullivan sits down Jason Wright, managing partner and head of investments at Ariel Project Level, a venture of Ariel Investments.

They discuss Project Level’s investments in women’s and youth sports, the untapped potential in the space, and why Wright believes volleyball is ready to rally.

Watch the full conversation above, and sign up to receive future editions of the CNBC Sport newsletter straight to your inbox.



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Frustrated mom goes off for 2-minutes on the ‘professionalization’ of kids sports

“Let’s sign our six-year-old up for soccer!” you think one day, trying to be the good involved parent. It’s all fun and games at first, and there doesn’t seem to be much of a downside. Your child will get exercise, learn teamwork and cooperation, develop leadership skills, and get valuable time outside away from tablets […]

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“Let’s sign our six-year-old up for soccer!” you think one day, trying to be the good involved parent. It’s all fun and games at first, and there doesn’t seem to be much of a downside. Your child will get exercise, learn teamwork and cooperation, develop leadership skills, and get valuable time outside away from tablets and other screens. The games will be fun, and there will be snacks, Gatorade, and, of course, the orange slices. What could go wrong?

Fast forward two years, and suddenly you’re at practice until seven p.m. three nights per week and arranging to travel out of town for a weekend tournament in Jacksonville. Your house is in shambles, you’re living off of fast food, and your bank account is screaming at you to stop signing up for extra private training sessions and off-season leagues.

When did it get like this? Didn’t there once be a time when kids could casually play sports without worrying about whether they’d be able to get a college scholarship or go pro one day?

One frustrated mom on TikTok is wondering the same thing, and just unleashed a perfect monologue against what she calls the “professionalization” or youth sports.

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The mom, who goes by @LittleRedSchoolHouse on social media, has a daughter who takes ballet—and it’s driving her to the brink. “My daughter is in dance, and that’s great, she loves it. But she doesn’t want to be a ballerina, she doesn’t want to be a professional dancer. She just likes to go to her class and dance,” she says.

Yet, despite the casual nature of the class, the mom suddenly found herself signed up for a whopping three performances in a 24-hour period. The kicker is that her daughter would only be dancing for five minutes in each show.

“We have to be there for 12 hours so she can dance for 15 minutes.” And then there’s tickets to buy, costume fees, paying for her daughter to be in the performance (a separate fee from the usual tuition!), and a fundraiser to participate in to raise additional money. It’s a massive time and financial commitment from the family.

“I think we need to normalize kids being able to participate in activities and extracurriculars without professionalizing them as parents. For example, kids should be able to play soccer without having to go to league championships or weekend-long jamborees or away games,” she says. “They should be able to gain the skill of playing on a team, learning how to play a sport, being physical, having fun with their friends, getting out there and being active, without being forced into this, ‘More, more, more, go, go, go, go, you must be the best at it,’ sort of behavior.”

You can watch the whole, compelling argument here:

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Not to mention that this kind of commitment is difficult for parents or kids with disabilities, and families in general who have more than one kid that participates in activities. When did extra curriculars become so EXTRA? More is not always better! #letthembelittle #homeschoolextracurricular #parenting

Parents poured into the comments to air their own grievances with the current state of youth sports culture:

“Travel teams are SO out of control.”

“What’s even crazier is if you don’t commit like this when they’re little they’re almost guaranteed to not make the school teams when they get to it at grade level.”

“I think it’s also ruined kids’ sense of self-worth and reality. Not everyone can go pro, and that’s okay, and it also makes kids think that only rich kids can go pro.”

“Privatization ruins everything. Public rec leagues and classes are age-appropriate, inclusive, and affordable. Kids learn skills and have fun, and they can change activities every season if they want.”

Adults aren’t immune to this same system and culture. We can’t even have hobbies anymore without feeling like we need to somehow monetize them into a side hustle or eventually go pro. So it makes sense that kids aren’t allowed to play sports for fun without having big ambitions of playing at the university level. This creates a paradox described well by a Vox article whereby only kids from families with the most resources even have a shot at playing at high levels. Only “semi-rich” families can afford the time and money it takes to stay involved with high-stakes leagues.

kids, youth sports, kids sports, soccer, dance, ballet, parents, parenting, moms, motherhood, childrenRunning around, drinking Gatorade, and eating oranges. That’s what youth sports should be!
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Some users chimed in to blame parents for pushing too hard and trying to “live vicariously” through their children. But the point of the viral TikTok was that parents are often in a bind where there aren’t any more casual options, and they have to choose between high-stakes activities or no activities at all.

Kids who want to obsess over being the best and chase the highest highs of their chosen sport should have those opportunities. But there should also be low-stakes activities available through public parks, churches, the YMCA, and other community centers. Until those options start coming back, kids and parents alike will be paying the price.





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