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Queens Chaplain Guides Women’s Rugby Toward National Title

May 30, 2025 By Queens University Communications In 2022, the Queens University of Charlotte women’s rugby team made history, clinching the university’s first National Intercollegiate Rugby Association (NIRA) Division 2 National Championship. Beyond the physical prowess and strategic plays, one influential element in their victory was the mental fortitude cultivated through mindfulness sessions led by […]

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In 2022, the Queens University of Charlotte women’s rugby team made history, clinching the university’s first National Intercollegiate Rugby Association (NIRA) Division 2 National Championship. Beyond the physical prowess and strategic plays, one influential element in their victory was the mental fortitude cultivated through mindfulness sessions led by university chaplain, Adrian Bird, Ph.D.

In recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month, Bird reflected on his impactful journey with the team, highlighting the integral role of mental preparation in elite athletic performance and overall student well-being.

A former rugby player and coach, Bird’s involvement with the team began organically. “As a new person to Queens, I was really hoping to connect with athletes so that they would get to know me as the chaplain,” he said. “Almost immediately I had the support of their coaching staff and what evolved was a holistic approach to student-athlete welfare, incorporating elements of sports psychology, mindfulness, and mind-body-spirit balance into weekly sessions.”

The tools provided to the athletes focused on developing mental fortitude and positive self-talk. Bird emphasized preparing athletes to enter a game by repeating, “I am enough, I am equipped, I can perform at an elite level. I have the support of my teammates.” This mental remembering, he stressed, allows athletes to “enter with confidence into the zone of elite performance.”

Bird even facilitated a Zoom session with leading sports psychologist Bill Beswick, who has worked with teams including Manchester United and the English rugby team, to further equip the Queens athletes with strategies for mental preparation.

The impact of the weekly sessions became particularly evident during the championship final, which went into extra time. “As I watched the game on the TV, I knew that that team was equipped mentally, even though they were physically exhausted,” Bird said, recalling the tense moments. “I had no doubt at all that they were going to take that game to victory.”

Beyond the rugby field, Bird recognizes the unique mental health challenges faced by college students today. “It can be a very difficult place to be,” he acknowledged, citing external and internal pressures from academics, sports, family, peers, and the pervasive “imposter syndrome.”

Bird’s approach to these challenges is not about “shutting off the noise,” but rather learning to “tune it out so that you can focus on the task at hand in the moment.” He believes these skills, initially honed for athletic performance, translate into valuable life tools for all students navigating the complexities of campus life.

According to Amber Slack, Ed.D., vice president for student affairs and dean of students, a staggering percentage of students experience physical or emotional symptoms due to stress each month.

“My research shows that college students, especially Gen Z, are struggling to cope with the stress of higher education,” Slack stated. “We know that loneliness, depression, and anxiety are real concerns that directly contribute to psychological distress. This makes student well-being an absolutely critical concern for us, demanding our attention and support.”

Addressing the stigma surrounding mental health support, Bird champions the power of visibility and relationship-building. “If I can be on the field, engaging meaningfully with athletes in their training spaces, it builds a level of trust that makes it much easier for them to seek help when needed – on or off the field,” he said. This presence fosters trust, making it easier for students to seek help when needed.

While still deeply connected to the women’s rugby team, Bird hopes to expand his presence across other athletic programs at Queens. His goal is to collaborate with coaches who see the value in integrating mind-body-spirit balance into their teams’ training, allowing him to “build relationships with students and accompany them on their journey throughout their time at Queens.”

For Bird, this work is immensely rewarding. “I see my role as being very special. It’s an incredibly privileged position,” he shared. “The opportunity to be alongside students through the highs and the lows and everywhere in between is something I don’t take lightly.” Witnessing students thrive, both on and off the field, he said, is “incredibly validating for me.”

Beyond the Chaplain’s Office, the Dean of Students Office provides support to students dealing with mental health crises. Confidential counseling services are also provided to students through the Queens University Health & Wellness Center from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., Monday through Friday. After hours, virtual counseling and a 24/7 crisis hotline are also available. Additionally, Queens Athletics provides access to a sports psychologist through Atrium Health. Student-athletes do not need a referral and can initiate scheduling through their athletic trainer or by calling 704-512-7578.

The resources provided to students exemplify Queens’ commitment to supporting the holistic well-being of its students. By integrating mental health practices into the student experience, the university empowers its students not only to achieve peak performance in their chosen fields but also to develop resiliency for life’s broader challenges.



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Manheim Central’s run to PIAA boys volleyball royalty coincided with District 3 counterpart [column] | Boys’ volleyball

UNIVERSITY PARK — What makes a championship-winning team? Pure talent? Cohesion amongst players and staff? Experience? Luck? There’s no correct answer. No evidence to fully comprehend what it takes to reach the summit. But over a given high school athletic season, programs align the pieces, check off the boxes and identify the values that make […]

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UNIVERSITY PARK — What makes a championship-winning team?

Pure talent? Cohesion amongst players and staff? Experience? Luck?

There’s no correct answer. No evidence to fully comprehend what it takes to reach the summit. But over a given high school athletic season, programs align the pieces, check off the boxes and identify the values that make the engine hum.

In rare instances, the segments click into place. Blossom into a gold-medal outcome.

I had the privilege of covering both PIAA boys volleyball champions this spring. On Saturday, I assisted in the coverage of Manheim Central lifting its first Class 2A title in program history. At my previous employer, I thoroughly followed Cumberland Valley, the Class 3A victor.

The Barons imposed their payback at Penn State University’s Rec Hall, dispatching District 10 champion Meadville 3-1 — by scores of 21-25, 25-23, 25-16 and 27-25 — after settling for silver against the Bulldogs in 2024. The Eagles, completing an undefeated campaign, swept District Seven stronghold North Allegheny in 25-21, 25-21, 25-12 fashion.

“It’s probably the calmest I’ve been in a championship match,” Central coach Craig Dietrich said, “because they knew what they needed to do. Very few small adjustments we made today, but I trust them very greatly.”

Two teams. Two identities. The same result.

What Central thrived in, CV was shorthanded. What the Eagles succeeded in, the opposite for the Barons.

Don’t twist it, there was plenty of crossover to go around. Senior leadership, for example.

Central started five seniors. CV fielded six. Most logged significant minutes as underclassmen and juniors, the springboard to their fruitful ending.

“We said (to each other), ‘Stay focused. Stay in the moment. Stay present,’” Barons senior outside Reagan Miller said. “Because the state championship only happens once a year. So that was kind of the message throughout playoffs.”


COLUMN: Manheim Central will enjoy view from the top of PIAA Class 2A volleyball mountain


Speaking of the postseason, that’s where the Barons and Eagles’ one-way ticket to gold mapped separate routes. Manheim met its adversity in the Lancaster-Lebanon League final, suffering a 3-1 setback — its only loss of the season — to Cedar Crest. Cumberland Valley, which hadn’t dropped a set all spring, was momentarily derailed when Central York stole a game in the District Three title tilt.

Where did the eventual PIAA champs recenter? In each match following their respective delay.

The Barons used Crest’s clipping as scripture and won their ensuing 18 sets. The Eagles, albeit a set loss to Governor Mifflin in the state semifinals, ousted Unionville, Abington Heights and the Mustangs with game victories of 25-7, 25-9, 25-10 and 25-11 nature.

Central and CV were vulnerable to the knockdown. But they regained anchorage, raised the flags and set sail with little turbulence.

“We’ve all been in that situation before,” Barons senior setter Dylan Musser said. “… It’s just something we know that we can do, that we’re capable of. And we showed it.”

“Showing it” can come in all shapes and sizes. From the front row to the back corners of the court. The Barons and Eagles hugged the parallel line of talent.

Manheim landed six players on the District Three 2A all-star list, as did CV in the 3A contingent. For L-L Section Two, Miller and Musser shared MVP honors, and six Barons earned all-star admission. In the Mid-Penn Commonwealth, Eagles setter Isaiah Sibbitt was tabbed Player of the Year, leading six all-division selections.

It doesn’t get more linear. Covered from the front, back, middle and outside. No empty gaps, no holes to exploit.

“Our whole team knew what was at stake,” Musser said. “For us seniors, this was our last shot. We just gave it our all.”

Desire was the gulf between Central and CV. Not that the Eagles didn’t have the gold-medal itch. But the Barons’ itch, after two prior whiffs and a rematch with the Bulldogs, became a scratch and then a scar.

Central clotted the proverbial bleeding Saturday. All the aches, cramps and throbs of last year’s sting were bandaged. No more “what if?”

“We wanted this all year, getting back to the state ‘chip, and we knew we could,” Musser said. “Playing Meadville made it even better. You get that rematch, and then especially beating them. It feels amazing. We felt we were the better team last year, but it didn’t go our way. But this year, we just battled through it and got our revenge.”

CV didn’t have the dejection, the sorrow of a state-championship loss hanging over its head. The Eagles’ last final appearance — and only other — came in 2008 when they outlasted Central York in five sets. Manheim Central joined Hempfield — a 10-time PIAA champion — and Conestoga Valley (1983) in L-L boys volleyball royalty.

“It’s a very small group of teams that have done it,” Dietrich said. “It is pretty cool to bring it back, and I think the community really rallied around us and supported us.”

The question still stands: what makes a championship-winning team?

The Barons and Eagles don’t have the answer key, but they had the tools to solve the riddle. The means to reach the summit.

Two teams with two identities, authoring the same result.


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Mavericks volleyball showed resilience in wake of levy failure

MOSES LAKE – When the Moses Lake School District 2024 educational programs and operations levy failed for the first time, coaches like Mavericks volleyball coach Krystal Trammell were unsure what would happen if it failed a second time. What they were certain about was their dedication to the kids at Moses Lake High School.   […]

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MOSES LAKE – When the Moses Lake School District 2024 educational programs and operations levy failed for the first time, coaches like Mavericks volleyball coach Krystal Trammell were unsure what would happen if it failed a second time. What they were certain about was their dedication to the kids at Moses Lake High School.  

“I don’t think there was one coach or one program that wasn’t in to do it for the kids,” Trammell said. “We knew exactly what we needed to do. We just didn’t know how to go about it, how the teams were going to look, our transportation equipment, etcetera. But relying on each other really helped things kind of materialize.” 

After the levy failed a second time, Trammell knew it was real and had to figure out how the team was going to have a volleyball season. She said the hard work of the coaches at Moses Lake and the Community Athletics and Activities booster helped the season come to fruition.  

Trammell said parents stepped up and helped organize transportation for the athletes to get to games and tournaments throughout the fall season. When they had to figure out how to have a season, it was clear that their culture was in jeopardy, according to Trammell. Over the years, she said they have worked hard to build a culture of students first, athletes second.  

“When that opportunity could have been taken from us, we turned to each other, our parents, our coaching staff and our athletes, and came together as a group stronger than before. We were going to do everything in our power to make the program even better and get more hands involved. That’s exactly what happened with our parents and athletes and coaches,” Trammell said.  

The Mavericks volleyball team managed to put together one of their best seasons in a long time, according to Trammell. They finished the season with a 12-6 record and secured a highlight 3-1 win over West Valley, which Trammell said was their first in program history. Trammell could see something shifted in her players’ last season that made a difference.  

“Program-wide, the girls had something to prove. They were not going to let the levy failure and the fact that we almost didn’t have a season ruin anything. I think they came out more on fire to show everyone ‘no, we’re not going to stop, and this is what we’re going to do,’” she said.  

Trammell said her team excelled with court awareness, mental toughness and utilizing everything they have worked on over the last couple of years. She said she liked what she saw from her team last season, and it makes her excited for this upcoming season since they will have nine returning players. She said they will benefit from coming in with more knowledge and experience.  

However, now that a new levy was passed this year, they will still have another season without a budget until January 2026. Though Trammell said it will be business as usual heading into the season. She said their experience last season will help them navigate this season more effectively as they learn more throughout the summer.  

According to Trammell, she is confident they will have another season after seeing all of the support they got last year. She is confident in her community, she said, and believes in Mavericks athletics. In the meantime, Trammell plans to prepare for the fall season the same way she always does.  

“We’re just concentrating on the workouts and our summer league and preparing for the season, and we’ve been through it once, and so going through it again, it won’t be as difficult this time,” she said. “It brought all the coaches together and I think sportsmanship is different. I just think everyone came together as a whole league instead of just one community, one town, one school.”  

    Krystal Trammell breaks down a huddle with her players before a game. Trammell said her players played with something to prove this season in the wake of the 2024 levy failure.
 
 
    Mavericks Maddy Bond prepares for an incoming ball during a set. Bond made the All-League first team in the Big Nine conference.
 
 
    The Mavericks’ Makenna Stuart serving the ball in their game against Sunnyside last season. Stuart was an honorable mention in the Big Nine All-League team announcements last Fall.
 
 
    The Mavs’ Kardyn Martinez spikes the ball in their game against Sunnyside last season. Martinez has been All-League first team the last two seasons, and Trammell hopes to see that continue heading into her senior season this Fall.
 
 



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A midseason review of San Diego FC’s inaugural run – The Daily Aztec

Before the start of the 2025 MLS season, pundits and analysts across the media had their fun with predictions, hot takes, and potential storylines ahead of the season. No one, however, could have predicted the early success of Major League Soccer’s newest member, San Diego FC. Like most expansion teams in American […]

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Before the start of the 2025 MLS season, pundits and analysts across the media had their fun with predictions, hot takes, and potential storylines ahead of the season. No one, however, could have predicted the early success of Major League Soccer’s newest member, San Diego FC.

Like most expansion teams in American sports, predictions about SDFC’s inaugural season generally followed the assumption that they would struggle throughout the year, ending up near the bottom of the league and building up from there.

Yet the San Diego squad is not one to abide by precedent, as not even hometown media could have predicted this level of early success. With a 10-3-5 record and sitting alone at second place in the Western Conference, SDFC is not only poised for a successful inaugural run but also a potential inaugural playoff run that borders on title contention.

Expansion clubs in the MLS have found early success before, as seen most recently with St. Louis City SC, which finished first in the Western Conference in its 2023 inaugural season. This, however, is very much the exception rather than the norm.

To better understand this unexpected development and where it might all be heading, it is important to break down some key developments that occurred both before the start of the season and during.

Blooming culture

Team culture is the foundation of any professional sports club, and SDFC Head Coach Mikey Varas and his staff have built a bedrock that players have fully bought into and built on.

Varas speaks often of maintaining a growth mindset in the squad, not allowing complacency to creep in. He promotes playing with bravery, always looking for ways to improve, and remaining focused on the task at hand.

“Making sure our feet stay on the ground, making sure that we’re not getting too high or too low, and part of that is just remembering that our first and ultimate goal is to be fighting for playoffs in our first year,” Varas said during a media availability regarding the group’s biggest challenge.

Milan Iloski #32, gained traction and scored a second goal of the match. (Mariadelcarmen Zuniga)

Underrated and hungry talent

Before San Diego’s inaugural season got underway, many of the players the team acquired were relative unknowns to the city. Outside of players named Hirving Lozano, you would be hard pressed to find someone outside of soccer fanatics who knew much about the squad.

When taking a closer look at this group, however, a fine collection of talent is revealed. Up and down the squad, players are making their mark not just on the team but on the league as well. Whether it’s Danish forward Anders Dreyer’s calculated offense and league-leading nine assists, team captain Jeppe Tverskov anchoring the midfield with veteran Aníbal Godoy, or supersub and Escondido native Milan Iloski putting his heart into every score off the bench.

The true depth of that talent will be put to the ultimate test over the course of the next few weeks, with many starters on the team missing due to injury or international duty.

Controlling the flow

Well before opening kickoff, Varas was clear in his desire to see his team play with relentless press and bravery on the ball against opponents. His squad heard him loud and clear, making SDFC’s offense in competition with some of the best in the league, holding a top 10 position in most attacking statistics.

Tied for first in the league in possession statistics, San Diego doesn’t let other teams dictate the game either, putting opponents on the back foot and forcing them to play uncomfortable and out of scheme.

Defensively, the squad has made incredible strides as well. After bouncing back from an abysmal April where the team allowed nine goals in four matches, the defense displayed real tenacity, stifling the opposition to allow only five goals in the last eight matches.

“That’s something we’ve been working on from day one, how we defend together,” defender Christopher McVey said of the improvement. “It’s a collective thing, a lot of times people think it’s just the defenders, but it’s a team effort, and I think we’ve been taking big steps in all of the positions, but especially up on the start of the press.”

With 16 matches to go, there is still plenty of gametime left and questions to be answered. Though barring a disastrous collapse, San Diego FC is well on its way to its first-ever postseason in its first-ever season.

As long as the squad remains consistent in their form, their destiny will remain in their own hands. With the supporters who have made Snapdragon Stadium a homefield bastion backing them, the sky is the limit for this young club.



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While fans of the Giants and Red Sox were focused on the blockbuster deal that sent Rafael Devers to San Francisco earlier this evening, the clubs made a pair of related transactions that may have flown under the radar amid a busy evening of news around the league. A look at those moves: The Giants […]

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While fans of the Giants and Red Sox were focused on the blockbuster deal that sent Rafael Devers to San Francisco earlier this evening, the clubs made a pair of related transactions that may have flown under the radar amid a busy evening of news around the league. A look at those moves:

  • The Giants selected the contract of left-hander Joey Lucchesi, who took both the active and 40-man roster spots of Kyle Harrison after he was dealt to Boston as part of the Devers trade. In an unusual wrinkle, the transaction was made official before the start of tonight’s game against the Dodgers but was not announced until Lucchesi had already begun warming up in the San Francisco bullpen and taken the mound for his first appearance as a Giant. The 32-year-old signed a minor league deal with San Francisco back in January on the heels of a four-season run with the Mets where he served mostly as minor league depth. He pitched to a 3.78 ERA (109 ERA+) with a 4.02 FIP in 95 1/3 innings of work during his time in Queens, a slight improvement on the matching 4.21 ERA and FIP he posted in 299 1/3 innings of work with the Padres across his first three seasons in the majors. Lucchesi profiles as a swing man or back-end rotation piece, though in his first outing with the Giants he surrendered two runs on three hits while recording just two outs.
  • Meanwhile, the Red Sox designated left-hander Zach Penrod for assignment this evening. Penrod’s departure makes room for the addition of Kyle Harrison to the club’s 40-man roster, after Jordan Hicks took Devers’s own 40-man spot. The southpaw made his big league debut for Boston last year and pitched to a 2.25 ERA across seven relief appearances, though he walked (four) more batters than he struck out (three) while also hitting a batter and throwing a wild pitch during that brief cup of coffee. He’s not yet made an appearance at the big league level this year and has a 3.38 ERA in 5 1/3 innings of work at Triple-A this season. Boston will now have one week to either work out a trade involving Penrod or attempt to pass him through waivers. Should he wind up clearing waivers, the Red Sox will have the opportunity to send him outright to the minors as non-roster depth.

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The Portland Bar That Screens Only Women's Sports

The Sports Bra started as an inside joke between a chef and her friends. It created a national trend. When Jenny Nguyen was in her twenties, working as a chef in her home town of Portland, Oregon, she became a regular at pickup basketball games organized by a group of “lawyers, plumbers, women from all […]

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The Portland Bar That Screens Only Women's Sports


The Sports Bra started as an inside joke between a chef and her friends. It created a national trend.
A female basketball player shoots into a glass of beer.

When Jenny Nguyen was in her twenties, working as a chef in her home town of Portland, Oregon, she became a regular at pickup basketball games organized by a group of “lawyers, plumbers, women from all walks of life,” she told me recently. “The only thing we had in common was basketball.” Some of the women became her close friends, and one became a longtime girlfriend. When they weren’t playing, they got together to watch women’s games at sports bars—or tried to. Persuading a bartender or a manager to turn one on was a “constant situation,” Nguyen, who is now forty-five, recalled.

On April 1, 2018, the group got lucky when they met at a bar to watch the final of that year’s women’s N.C.A.A. tournament, in which Notre Dame defeated Mississippi State by just three points, with a player named Arike Ogunbowale—now a point guard for the Dallas Wings—hitting the game-winning jumper with 0.1 seconds left on the clock. As they were leaving, Nguyen remembered, “I hugged my friend, and I was, like, ‘That was the best game I’ve ever seen.’ And she goes, ‘Yeah, can you imagine if the sound was on?’ ” In the excitement, Nguyen had barely noticed that they’d been relegated to a small, silent TV in a corner. “I was really frustrated, not just with myself but with the whole situation,” she told me. “I said, ‘The only way we’re ever going to watch women’s sports the way it deserves is if we have our own place.’ ”

Exactly four years later, Nguyen opened the Sports Bra, a pub that exclusively screens women’s sports, in a storefront in Northeast Portland that was once occupied by a gay bar called Jocks. In the years before it opened, the concept was a running gag among Nguyen’s friends. “Whenever somebody would turn us down at the bar, we’d be, like, ‘Oh, at the Sports Bra they show volleyball,’ ” she said. Today, the Bra, as Nguyen calls it, is an institution imbued with that puckish idealism. Most of the twenty-odd beers on tap come from breweries that are owned or operated by women, and there are drinks named for the pioneering golfer Patty Berg (an Arnold Palmer with a cherry on top) and for Title IX. The homey space, panelled in dark wood, recalls a nineties coffeehouse, chockablock with sports memorabilia and flyers advertising community events: an adult L.G.B.T.Q.+ summer camp, an Asian climbers’ meetup called ElevAsian.

I planned my visit to the Bra to coincide with an Indiana Fever game, in the hope that the beloved point guard Caitlin Clark would draw a crowd. A few days before I arrived in Portland, Clark strained her left quad, an injury that would bench her for at least two weeks. Still, in the course of the day, a healthy stream of patrons showed up, some just to eat and drink: in addition to classics like burgers and fries, Nguyen offers a rack of ribs, adapted from her mother’s recipe for thit kho (pork braised in coconut soda), and wings dressed in “Aunt Tina’s Vietna-Glaze” (brown sugar and fish sauce) or a house-fermented buffalo sauce. Pretaped footage of women’s sailing, hockey, beach volleyball, and gymnastics played on the bar’s TVs until the Fever game aired live.

Jenna Dalton, an artist in her forties dressed in a tie-dyed tunic, with corkscrew curls cut in an asymmetrical bob, watched the game with her partner, George Kunz, a bespectacled, retired educator with a white ponytail. “I don’t like sports at all, and I have a rule that we don’t watch sports in my house,” Dalton told me. “But, I’ve got to tell you, I like watching the W.N.B.A.” Part of it is the pleasure of “watching women succeed in things,” she said. “But I also just like that it’s a little more scrappy. I find the N.B.A. to be very polished and boring.” Kunz added, “You feel like you’re not just watching a game—there’s a movement.”

Another couple, Katie Camarano and Brandon Fischer, on vacation from Champaign, Illinois, sat on a banquette, sharing a soft pretzel. “I’m a Fever fan,” Camarano said. “I like the pickups, I like the pace that they’re playing at. It’s just a lot more fun to watch. I mean, he can tell you”—she gestured at Fischer—“I used to not give a crap about basketball. It didn’t seem very important to me, men playing. Cool, you can dunk a ball—you’re seven feet tall, I don’t understand how that’s meant to be impressive!” Fischer winced. “I can feel myself getting under his skin a little bit,” Camarano said, then proceeded undeterred. “They miss a ton of their free throws. It’s a free point, how are you missing that? I feel like the women have to play a little bit more, physically, because no one that I’ve seen is tall enough to get in the air and dunk.”

At halftime, three young women wearing Fever gear got up and left, before the Washington Mystics won by six points. A trio of gray-haired women wandered in: a local married couple named Peggy Berroth and Sara Kirschenbaum, and their friend Lisa Hurtubise, who was visiting from Minneapolis. Kirschenbaum and Hurtubise met in 1984, in Columbus, Ohio, when they organized a women’s peace walk, trekking almost two hundred miles from Akron to Dayton in the course of ten days, protesting in front of nuclear-weapons facilities.

“I’m a sports fanatic,” Berroth, a retired labor-and-delivery nurse with a pronounced Boston accent, told me. Title IX was passed when she was in high school, in Massachusetts, but she found that female athletes were still given short shrift. “I was on the track team,” she said. “I was a miler, I ran the eight hundred for the relay, and I also threw the discus. There was no coach, there was no uniform. I went to the school board and I said, ‘How come the boys have two pairs of shoes, and we don’t have any shoes?’ They didn’t give us the time of day.” Berroth is a season-ticket holder for the Portland Thorns, the city’s pro women’s soccer team, and likes to watch away games at the Bra, when she can get a seat. “When I see twenty-six thousand people sitting in those stands, it just makes my heart sing,” she said.

As a prerecorded rock-climbing competition played on the TV nearest their table, Hurtubise, whose two daughters played hockey in Minneapolis, approached a bartender and asked whether they might consider putting on an N.B.A. game instead—the Minnesota Timberwolves were playing the Oklahoma City Thunder in the Western Conference finals. She shrugged agreeably when the bartender declined.

When Nguyen told her parents, who immigrated to the U.S. from Vietnam in the seventies, about her plan for the Bra, they were skeptical. “The very first thing my mom said was ‘Do you think right now is a good time to open a lesbian bar?’ ” Nguyen said, laughing. “At no point in the conversation did I say I was opening a lesbian bar, but Mom knew that that Venn diagram looks very much like a circle.” The moment proved to be the right one. Not only was there a dearth of places to watch women’s sports—as far as Nguyen could tell, hers would be the first bar in the U.S. devoted to screening them—there was also a lack of queer and specifically lesbian spaces, even in a city as progressive as Portland.

The Bra was met with some hostility—Nguyen said that she received death threats, and that vandals broke windows—but it was also an immediate success. Hundreds of people showed up to the opening, which was the day after Portland lifted its indoor mask mandate, and in the middle of the N.C.A.A. tournament. “It was mayhem, hugging and crying,” Nguyen said. “There was lots of exchange of fluids.” The place was buoyed, too, by a groundswell of support from “the lesbian network”: friends of friends who were eager to help with accounting, general contracting, washing dishes. The Bra stirred strong emotions among both patrons and staff. “When I was a server those first couple years, I had a bruise here,” the general manager, Katie Leedy, remembered, showing me how she would pinch the skin between her thumb and pointer fingers. “Because I would just be, like, ‘I can’t cry every time I talk to a table.’ ”

Earlier this month, Nguyen announced that the Bra was franchising and expanding into four new cities—Indianapolis, Boston, Las Vegas, and St. Louis—with the help of an investment from Alexis Ohanian, a co-founder of Reddit, better known to some as Serena Williams’s husband. In 2019, after he learned that Megan Rapinoe’s team, the Seattle Reign, sold for just three and a half million dollars, Ohanian “rage-tweeted” about women’s sports being undervalued, and vowed to buy or start a team. (He’s the founding control owner of Angel City F.C., L.A.’s pro women’s soccer team.) Some commenters called him an idiot. He felt a kinship with Nguyen when he saw people ridiculing the Bra online. “If you’re polarizing people this early with an idea, it means you’re really on to something,” he told me. “People are not going to waste their time hating unless they feel very threatened.”

By the end of the year, there will be more than two dozen women’s sports bars open across the country. Jax Diener, who opened Watch Me! Sports Bar, in Long Beach, California, last year with her wife, told me that she and Nguyen are members of a Slack chat with the owners of similar establishments, including A Bar of Their Own, in Minneapolis, and Rikki’s, in San Francisco. “The founding mothers,” Diener said, are a tight-knit group, generous with advice and emotional support.

“I think lesbians are always searching for more community spaces,” the comedian and “Daily Show” correspondent Grace Kuhlenschmidt told me recently. Kuhlenschmidt, who grew up in L.A., was not much of a sports fan until she went to her first New York Liberty game, in 2021, and found the Barclays Center filled with “almost exclusively women and older lesbians,” she said. “I was, like, ‘I’m in Heaven.’ ” Now she hosts Liberty watch parties—complete with seafoam-green Gatorade-and-Midori slushies—at Singers, a campy Bed-Stuy queer bar. When I mentioned Watch Me!, Kuhlenschmidt told me that she had family in Long Beach and spent many holidays there. “One time, my mom called me out of the blue and was, like, ‘Grace, guess what? There’s a huge lesbian community in Long Beach!’ And I was, like, ‘That is awesome. Is that the only reason you called?’ ” ♦

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The Secrets of Achieving Work-Life Balance

In today’s fast-paced world, achieving work-life balance is more crucial than ever, especially for those in high-demand careers such as hospitality, the culinary arts, and wellness. These industries require not only long hours and intense focus but also the ability to maintain physical and mental wellbeing to thrive. Without a healthy body and mind, the […]

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In today’s fast-paced world, achieving work-life balance is more crucial than ever, especially for those in high-demand careers such as hospitality, the culinary arts, and wellness. These industries require not only long hours and intense focus but also the ability to maintain physical and mental wellbeing to thrive. Without a healthy body and mind, the challenges of leadership, creativity, and personal growth become even more difficult to navigate. 

The benefits are well-documented – individuals who prioritise their health experience more energy, improved concentration, and greater overall satisfaction in both their personal and professional lives. Indeed, the most successful leaders recognise that their wellness is directly tied to their impact, and therefore it’s essential to foster habits that promote longevity, resilience, and clarity.

We spoke to five professionals who embody this philosophy, each offering unique insights into how they integrate wellness into their demanding careers. From the luxury hospitality sector and the culinary industry to nutrition, these individuals show how self care plays an integral role in achieving success. 

Whether it’s through daily fitness routines, mindfulness practices, or conscious eating habits, these dynamic leaders demonstrate how maintaining personal wellness helps them navigate their roles with greater ease, focus, and satisfaction, ultimately benefiting their teams and those they serve.

Sander Looijen

General Manager at The Westin Resort Nusa Dua, Bali and Multi-Property Vice President – Bali (Premium & Select Properties) of Marriott

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For the general manager of The Westin Resort Nusa Dua, Bali, staying active is crucial to both his wellbeing and leadership, especially when he’s performing a dual role as well. 

“Staying active keeps me sane,” Sander Looijen shares, and even with his packed schedule, he makes time for swimming and water polo. Beyond fitness, Sander incorporates daily rituals such as meditation and journaling, recognising the importance of mental clarity in achieving work-life balance. “Wellness isn’t just about physical health, it’s about emotional balance,” he adds. 

At the resort, wellness is about creating a holistic environment where multiple wellness experiences work in tandem. Guests can choose from yoga sessions, spa treatments, and nutritious meals, but the real benefit lies in how these elements layer together, helping guests reset and reconnect with themselves. 

He highlights that wellness is integrated into every part of the experience, from the calming atmosphere on arrival to the personalised programs tailored to guests’ needs. Sander recommends exploring personalised wellness programs, which have proven to have a lasting impact on guests, ensuring they leave feeling rejuvenated, both physically and mentally.


Yuda Bustara

Chef and media figure, winner of Netflix’s The Maverick Academy

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Chef Yuda Bustara approaches wellness with the same passion he applies to his career. Known for his boundless energy, he integrates weight training, cardio, and meditation into his routine. “It’s less about strict routines and more about making space for what keeps me energised,” Yuda explains. 

When it comes to nutrition, he follows a balanced approach, opting for high-protein meals including ayam kecap and telur balado while indulging occasionally in favourites such as nasi Padang. Yuda believes that mental resilience is just as important as physical health. “You don’t have to choose – your health fuels your passion,” he advises, encouraging young chefs to find harmony between what drives them and their wellbeing. 

For him, cooking is therapeutic, especially when preparing simple meals for himself away from the kitchen’s pressure. “Cooking at home, when no one is watching, helps me stay grounded,” Yuda reflects. With media appearances, brand work, and culinary projects often taking centre stage, he relies on tools such as Google Calendar to keep himself organised. He advises young chefs to take time for themselves and build wellness into their routine, ensuring they remain healthy both physically and mentally in an otherwise demanding industry.


Aulianty Fellina

Senior Director of Marketing Communications & PR at Sofitel Bali Nusa Dua Beach Resort

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Aulianty Fellina knows that wellness is not a luxury, but a necessity, especially in a fast-paced, high-demand environment like the hospitality industry. Achieving work-life balance is key, and she’s rigorous in her approach to daily habits that help maintain both her physical and mental wellbeing. 

Her mornings start with a calming walk, a ritual that helps reset her mind before the day’s responsibilities begin. She’s mindful of the need for mental clarity, which she achieves by stepping away from screens, enjoying a proper coffee, and taking time for quiet moments of reflection. Her approach to wellness revolves around small but essential routines. 

Physical movement is a non-negotiable for Aulianty, whether it’s a morning walk or a session at the gym, setting the tone for the day. She also values mindful eating, prioritising fresh, local ingredients, and makes time to truly enjoy her meals. When it comes to rest, sleep is treated as a priority; Aulianty ensures she gets at least eight hours each night, understanding that adequate rest is essential for staying sharp and grounded in her demanding role. 

Her morning ritual helps her prepare for high-pressure moments, especially when juggling the demands of her career. Her daily routine includes walking her dogs, stretching, and having a quiet coffee to set her intentions for the day. 

At Sofitel Bali Nusa Dua, wellness is deeply embedded in the guest experience. Aulianty encourages guests to embrace sunrise yoga and soothing spa treatments, both of which are woven into the resort’s holistic approach to wellness. “We’re creating a space where people can reset and feel like themselves again,” she says.


dr. Ayu Diandra Sari, MM, M.Gizi, Sp.GK

Clinical nutritionist and media figure, former beauty pageant titleholder of Puteri Indonesia Lingkungan (Miss Indonesia Environment)

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Clinical nutritionist dr Ayu Diandra Sari advocates a personalised approach to health. “A healthy relationship with food starts with understanding your body,” she explains, emphasising the importance of evidence-based nutrition. 

She encourages people to tune into their hunger and fullness cues, choose whole foods, and align their meal times with their daily activities. This foundation helps individuals avoid falling prey to fad diets, fostering a sustainable approach to eating that encourages long-term health and achieving work-life balance. 

For dr Diandra, wellness is a balance of nutrition, exercise, and mental wellbeing. Her morning begins with self-reflection and a high-protein, fibre-rich breakfast to fuel her body for the day ahead. She believes in the power of regular exercise, incorporating swimming and power walking into her weekly routine. 

To manage stress, she also practices meditation and deep breathing exercises. Despite her busy schedule, she recognises the importance of quality sleep, aiming for six to eight hours of rest each night to ensure her body and mind recover fully. 

When it comes to nutrition, she sees athletes as an ideal example of discipline and consistency. She encourages non-athletes to adopt the same principles, focusing on food quality, hydration, and meal timing. “It’s all about consistency,” she says, noting that athletes’ discipline can teach us valuable lessons about nutrition. Small, gradual shifts, such as increasing vegetable and fruit intake, prioritising sleep, and engaging in physical activity, can significantly improve overall wellbeing.


Rahma Susanti

Director of Wellness Pre-Operations of The Meru Sanur

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At The Meru Sanur, Rahma Susanti focuses on creating transformative wellness experiences through a balance of ancient Balinese healing traditions and modern wellness practices. 

“Wellness is about finding balance, not just within yourself, but also with the world around you,” Rahma explains. Her approach as the resort’s director of wellness pre-operations is rooted in Bali’s Tri Hita Karana philosophy, integrating elements such as grounding rituals and energy healing. 

Each guest’s wellness journey is personalised, guided by their Weton birth calendar, to ensure a deeply meaningful experience. Rahma’s own daily routine includes a simple but grounding morning ritual, starting with deep breathing and an affirmation: “Om Awignam Astu Ya Namah Swaha,” which translates to “May everything unfold with kindness.” 

This practice, paired with calming music, helps her stay balanced and focused throughout her demanding day. 

Looking forward, Rahma is excited to introduce a Wellness Botanical Garden at The Meru Sanur, which will offer guests an immersive, eco-friendly space for healing and connection to nature. “Small wellness habits like mindful breathing can make a huge difference in your life,” she adds, encouraging others to incorporate this practice into their daily routines. For Rahma, wellness is about relaxation as well as creating lasting, meaningful change.



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