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The moms of Jordan Spieth, Jaxon Smith-Njigba, Jason Robertson, Bobby Witt Jr., Tyrese Maxey and Jaedyn Shaw discuss what it’s like to raise a star athlete. DALLAS — Tune into WFAA+ at 7 p.m. on Wednesday, May 7, to watch the entire “The Panel with Jonah Javad: A Mother’s Day Special” with WFAA’s Jonah Javad […]

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The moms of Jordan Spieth, Jaxon Smith-Njigba, Jason Robertson, Bobby Witt Jr., Tyrese Maxey and Jaedyn Shaw discuss what it’s like to raise a star athlete.

DALLAS — Tune into WFAA+ at 7 p.m. on Wednesday, May 7, to watch the entire “The Panel with Jonah Javad: A Mother’s Day Special” with WFAA’s Jonah Javad and the moms of pro athletes Jordan Spieth, Jaxon Smith-Njigba, Jason Robertson, Bobby Witt Jr., Tyrese Maxey and Jaedyn Shaw. The show will also be available to watch on-demand after its initial airing.

Raising a young athlete is no small feat. It’s a full-time job that involves the entire family, countless hours of travel, emotional highs and lows, and maintaining the delicate balance of parenting, partnership and personal sanity.

That’s not just conjecture, either. Rather, it’s wisdom that comes straight from the source — moms who’ve helped usher their children up the ranks from youth recreational leagues to pro sports.

In advance of Mother’s Day, we gathered six mothers of highly successful professional athletes – from the NFL to the PGA Tour – to sit down together at the Kessler Theatre in Dallas for a candid conversation about their experiences and their advice for young parents.

One theme rang clear throughout our discussion: There is no playbook, but there are lessons learned.

Here are the seven biggest takeaways from the conversation.


Don’t look for a roadmap, just embrace the journey

The path to sports success is never linear. That much, every mom we spoke with agreed upon.

Another thing these moms concurred on: The idea of having your child solely focus on one sport didn’t apply to their kids’ success. Rather than a singular focus, these moms’ kids tried everything.

“My son Jordan [Spieth] played every sport,” recalled Christine Spieth, mother of PGA Tour golfer and Dallas native Jordan Spieth. “Whatever the season was — soccer, basketball, baseball. Golf was just something he did in between. He didn’t start focusing on it until he was 11 or 12.”

The consensus? Let kids be kids. Expose them to different activities, and follow their lead when they begin to show signs that they’re “serious.”

“The work ethic, the competitive spirit, all the things were there that I could see being a mom,” noted Laurie Witt, mother of MLB All-Star and Colleyville native Bobby Witt Jr.

Added Denyse Maxey, mother of NBA All-Star and Garland native Tyrese Maxey: “The way we frame it, my husband and I both, is: ‘When did you know that Tyrese [Maxey] was serious? When did you know he was serious?’ And then we give a couple of examples of things that he did that showed his over-competitiveness and [we thought], ‘OK, now we think he’s serious and now he may have a shot.’”


Nurture all your kids, not just the star athlete

For families with multiple children, keeping a household emotionally balanced when is critical. This is especially true when one of the kids in the family is a sports prodigy. And it’s something that each of the moms we spoke with emphasized.  

“Every child has their own thing,” Maxey said of her family. “When they find their niche, support it as fiercely as you supported the athlete.”

And if one sibling does rise to prominence? Humility at home matters.

“No one was ever number one in our house,” Spieth explained. “If you walked into my house now, there are no golf trophies. There are no basketball trophies. It’s just a house where three kids grew up.”

Maxey echoed the importance of that sentiment.

“I do agree; no one’s ever number one,” Maxey said. “Everyone’s treated equally. It doesn’t matter what age they are. If they mouth off, they’re going to get it.”

Added Ann Shaw, mom of rising U.S. women’s soccer star and Frisco native Jaedyn Shaw: “[My kids] see it. They know the energy that comes from me is equal to all of them. That’s how we keep the emotional flow in our house.”

“I think what’s important is that we involve the other kids with what everybody else is doing — not, ‘This is the schedule, and that’s it,'” noted Mercedes Robertson, mother of NHL stars Jason and Nicolas Robertson. “You have to kind of foster it. You have to really nurture that bond. Because that’s what’s going to help them as adults when you’re not around them daily.”


Self-care isn’t optional — it’s essential

There’s no denying the emotional toll that raising a pro athlete can put on mothers and the “team behind the team.” Which is why it’s important, the moms said, to not let own needs often came last.

“We tend to put ourselves in the back and we don’t take care of ourselves,” Maxey said. “We don’t take care of our mental needs, we don’t take care of our physical needs. And what I have learned is there has to be a balance. So if I had to tell my younger self something — when I first got married and started having children — it’s, ‘Denyse, take care of you, too.’ That’s what I would tell any young mother in this position where her child or children are trending in that direction to be a professional athlete.”

Whatever that self-care looks like for the parent, it’s not indulgent — it’s necessary.

Sharing responsibilities among both parents, focusing on the strength of a marriage and keeping tabs on the larger family sacrifice all play a vital part in success as well.

The Shaw family, for example, has moved twice now — to San Diego and North Carolina — to follow Jaedyn Shaw as she embarked on her professional career. That kind of commitment, Ann said, needs to be balanced with others.

“[My husband and I] run 100 miles an hour trying to get [the kids] everywhere,” she said. “But don’t forget about your spouse. We make sure to have a date night every two weeks. It keeps you connected when you’re constantly dividing and conquering.”

Indeed, the “divide and conquer” concept was a common theme throughout the discussion.

“In our case, we had a golfer [Jordan], a basketball player [Steven Spieth] who played in college and a couple of years in Europe, and a special needs daughter at home who’s eight years younger than Jordan,” Christine Spieth said. “We had to divide and conquer. My husband knew more about golf. I know nothing about golf — I’m just gonna make that clear, don’t play it, know nothing about it, even though I have a golfer. But I stayed back and did the AAU [basketball] tournaments with my son because my daughter can’t take the noise. She just can’t be on a golf course because she’s unpredictable and you have to be quiet. So, we divided and conquered. And now we’re all back together.”

Jami Smith, mother of NFL Pro Bowl receiver and Rockwall native Jaxon Smith-Njigba, said she’s still struggling with prioritizing her own needs.

“I’m probably still struggling with that balance, but I think it kind of works for me to not be balanced, to be able to roll with what’s happening,” said Smith, whose other son Canaan is also a pro athlete, having played two seasons of Major League Baseball. “[We] try not to overly plan what’s happening, especially with kids in multiple sports and in multiple journeys.”


Your child’s mental health matters more than any rankings

Success breeds jealousy. And jealousy breeds unsolicited comments and rude behavior.

Dealing with trolls and critics and haters can thicken the skin of the athlete in some cases, sure. But not all children are prepared for that mental and emotional toll when it comes, so it’s important for parents to keep tabs on their kids’ mental well-being, and not just their physical talents.

”The hardest part was they come out with rankings in high school and [Bobby] got ranked number one,” said Laurie Witt. “So, every game, [opposing fans] would be yelling ‘Overrated!’ It bothered me. It bothered his sisters. Bobby Jr. said it didn’t bother him as much as it really did bother me seeing other parents being really not nice. Even a grandmother one time at a playoff game said to my daughter, ‘I hope he strikes out. He’s not good. He’s overrated.’ To my daughter!”

But overly coddling a star young athlete can also lead to problems. So Shaw makes it a point to keep things level with her daughter no matter the situation.

“Sometimes I’ll treat her like my normal daughter even when she’s overwhelmed by the cameras and media,” Shaw said. “I think it gives her relief — like she can just be.”

The moms agreed that moments of emotional grounding like that were often what helped their children remain resilient.


It takes a village, but you should still keep your circle tight

As a child’s talent grows, so does outside interest in their possible fame — and that can get messy quickly.

“Once your child is identified as a potential pro, the vultures are coming,” Maxey warned. “You have to keep your circle very tight. We were very specific: ‘You do not go to our son. If you contact him directly, you’re out — whether you’re a coach, an agent, anyone.'”

To avoid issues, the moms created rules around contact and communication, and scheduled specific windows when coaches could talk with their child. These boundaries helped preserve these families’ authority and protect their children’s focus.

Youth sports are rarely isolated activities. And having a support system — family or not — can help lighten the mental load during frantic moments.

“Being such a young mom, you’re so caught up in the sacrifice of how am I gonna pay for this? How am I gonna get them there?,” Smith said. “I’m so fortunate for the great teammates that we had, the connections, the families — it’s who you celebrate your holidays with.”


Find purpose in the chaos

Raising a pro athlete means constant travel, nonstop practicing and very little down time. But it’s important, too, to take stock of all your family has accomplished together.

Said Robertson: “Within that organized chaos, pick a few moments to make it all make sense and worth the journey.”

The travel, the financial investment, the missed family events — it’s all-consuming. But, for these moms, it also created lifelong memories and purpose.

“Control what you can, make do with what you have available and just go with it,” Robertson added. “I think a lot has to do with the passion they have. A lot of times, you have to remind them that they made a commitment for the year. There are a lot of sacrifices made, not just individually but as a family. And you have to remind them as a parent, I’m not your best friend. Sometimes they’re mad at you, but the passion and their dream keeps them focused. That’s what our jobs as parents have to be.”


Remember: Your child is more than an athlete

In a world of cameras, contracts and constant comparison, the ultimate goal these mothers share is striving to keep their children grounded.

As they raised their children to greatness, these moms never lost sight of what mattered most: family, love and balance.

“I always tell my kids: soccer is what Jaedyn does,” said Shaw. “It’s not who she is.”



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“06880” Youth Sports Panel: Watch It Here

Youth sports are so good, on so many levels. They teach goal-setting. Perseverance. Dealing with disappointment. Learning to win with class, and lose without being a jerk. Working as a team. Working with different personalities. Pushing your body. Having fun. The thrill of victory, and the agony of defeat. Youth sports are also so bad, […]

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Youth sports are so good, on so many levels.

They teach goal-setting. Perseverance. Dealing with disappointment. Learning to win with class, and lose without being a jerk.

Working as a team. Working with different personalities. Pushing your body. Having fun. The thrill of victory, and the agony of defeat.

Youth sports are also so bad, on so many levels.

There are parental pressures, and unrealistic expectations. Coaches’ pressures, with their own unrealistic expectations. The high cost of “pay to play.” Specialization. Burnout.

Misplaced values. Time. Traveling each weekend to play “showcase” tournaments (which really aren’t), against teams from the next town.

The other night, “06880” teamed up with young adult author Tommy Greenwald, to present a special panel.

“Fair Play and Foul Behavior: Issues Facing Youth Sports in Today’s World” focused on many of the issues noted above.

It was an expert group. They hit it out of the park.

Panelists included:

  • Tommy Greenwald: former Staples High School soccer state champion captain; father of 3 athletes; author of several books highlight the pressures and joys of youth sports
  • VJ Sarullo, Staples athletic director
  • Dave Smith, father of 4 athletes who writes frequently on youth sports topics
  • Caleb Smith, former Staples quarterback, basketball and All-American lacrosse star, who played last football and club lacrosse this year at the University of Connecticut
  • Heather Talbott, PAL girls lacrosse co-president and basketball organizer; former lacrosse player at Lehigh University
  • Mark Pressman, longtime football and softball official.

If you missed the panel — perhaps you were picking up your kids from practice, or coaching a team yourself — we’ve got you covered.

Click here for the video, or watch it below. Game on!

(Panels like this one are one more service of “06880.” If you enjoy the many ways we cover — and educate — our community, please click here to support our work. Thank you!)



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PitchCom partners with Perfect Game to bring MLB technology to youth baseball

NEWYou can now listen to Fox News articles! EXCLUSIVE: PitchCom was introduced to MLB at the beginning of the 2022 season, and the communication system has quickly become prominent in the baseball world, overhauling pitcher-catcher communication.  Perfect Game, a youth baseball company that promotes baseball by hosting high-quality amateur events and providing exposure for players […]

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EXCLUSIVE: PitchCom was introduced to MLB at the beginning of the 2022 season, and the communication system has quickly become prominent in the baseball world, overhauling pitcher-catcher communication. 

Perfect Game, a youth baseball company that promotes baseball by hosting high-quality amateur events and providing exposure for players to play at higher levels, is the first organization of its kind to partner with PitchCom, Fox News Digital exclusively learned Thursday.

PitchCom emerged after the Houston Astros sign-stealing scandal during their World Series run in 2017 rocked the baseball world. 

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PitchCom devices on a field with the Perfect Game logo. (Courtesy of PitchCom)

John Hankins, co-investor and co-owner of PitchCom, saw that MLB had a need for a communication device that could prevent sign stealing. The challenge was the device couldn’t be vocal, and MLB officials didn’t want players to wear a communication device on their bodies. 

Hankins came up with PitchCom, which allows a catcher to press a button on a transmitter to call pitches. The transmitter sends prerecorded audio clips to the receivers, who in turn will hear the pitch call and defensive signals. 

The pitcher and fielders wear the receiver in their hats and can hear what the catcher inputs, allowing for clear and secure communication safe from being stolen, unlike traditional catcher signs. 

When Major League Baseball first heard of it, it loved the idea.

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“(We had) a meeting before a playoff game. The immediate response was this solves all of our problems,” Hankins told Fox News Digital.

“That was nice, and we left the meeting feeling pretty good. But, within about an hour, we got another phone call that said, ‘Can you meet with 20 of our executives on Zoom tomorrow. That was a positive sign.”

After that meeting, Major League Baseball became PitchCom’s first client. 

Jered Goodwin, the vice president of scouting operations at Perfect Game, trains with MLB players during the offseason. Goodwin told Fox News Digital the players had “a ton of positive feedback” about PitchCom. 

Blake Sabol uses PitchCom

San Francisco Giants catcher Blake Sabol (2) adjusts his PitchCom device during the eighth inning against the Milwaukee Brewers at Oracle Park May 7, 2023.  (Darren Yamashita/USA Today Sports)

“I can tell you from a guy that gets to coach some pitchers during the offseason, they love being on a level playing field,” Goodwin said. 

“They’re throwing a pitch without anybody on the field being able to know what’s coming (prior to PitchCom), and there’s been open conversations about that. There hasn’t been a lot of negative feedback. You get some transmitters you got to replace, but it takes a really short amount of time. And I think really everybody in baseball, players to owners and especially fans, have loved the pace of play and the shorter games.” 

“Obviously, some other rules were put into effect as well, but the direct communication in the short amount of time it takes has definitely been a ton of positive feedback.”

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Goodwin said he first thought of trying to bring PitchCom to Perfect Game when MLB began using it. He called it an “easy decision” to bring PitchCom into youth baseball and to form a partnership.

“I knew very early on that this was going to be something that was going to stick, so as it’s grown into major college baseball, to MLB, it’s great that we got to have a direct path for our players and our coaches to be able to learn operationally, intensely during a game. Anything like that of what they are going to use directly at the next level. So, it really was on the agenda as soon as it could be scaled,” Goodwin said.

Jon Updike, vice president of customer relations at PitchCom, said the device offers youth players benefits beyond just pitcher-catcher communication. 

Spencer Bivens in action

San Francisco Giants pitcher Spencer Bivens (76) holds his glove to his ear to hear his PitchCom against the St. Louis Cardinals during the ninth inning at Oracle Park Sept. 28, 2024.  (Robert Edwards/Imagn Images)

“It’s just not calling the pitches,” Updike said. “It’s the ability to send in maybe technical cues, but even more so than that, ‘Hey, great job’ or ‘You’re going to get them next time.’

“You are able to send in some psychological messages to them as well that will help either uplift them or snap them into place, which is a lot easier when it’s being whispered to an 8-year-old or a 12-year-old or 14-year-old’s ear than being yelled across the field.”

Goodwin said the introduction of PitchCom into Perfect Game will allow for more development among kids.

“Being able to talk through, especially with direct communication, being able to talk directly about why you called a pitch, how you were calling a pitch, being able to go over what those different reasons were, because you’ve got just an extra second to be able to do it. When you can speed up the game but also slow down the process, some real development of the ‘why?’ can happen,” Goodwin said.

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“I think you are going to see some things come out directly related to PitchCom helping with development. Whether it’s pitch calling, whether it’s the speed of the game, whether it’s location that (is) really going to help the youth be able to understand how they are trying to attack, why they are trying to attack, why this in that situation or that pitch in this situation and that’s one of the things that nobody is really dove into yet.

“But at Perfect Game we are constantly trying to find different ways to develop, and I think this is going to be a real asset to young ballplayers.”

Not only does Goodwin believe PitchCom will help players’ development. It should also change the way coaches teach and communicate in games. 

“It speeds up the time, but it also slows down what’s going on. Reaffirm some of the things that you might have gone over in practice. So, I think it’s such a huge advantage when these young athletes are going to be able to have that sense of pace, but also a sense of communication and development at a younger age,” Goodwin said.

James McCann adjusts his PitchCom

Baltimore Orioles catcher James McCann adjusts his PitchCom system during the first inning of a game against the Cleveland Guardians at Oriole Park at Camden Yards May 29, 2023.  (Tommy Gilligan/USA Today Sports)

Updike said the introduction of PitchCom at the youth baseball level will make for cleaner games because of the enhanced communication the device allows. 

“I see it has an opportunity to reduce pitches, which will directly, in turn, have a chance of reducing over usage and injury,” Updike said. “Just from having better information or paying attention to it. And then, on top of that, it makes it a cleaner baseball game. Less wild pitches, less cross-ups and more quality executed pitches.”

The voice that comes through the transmitter is an AI-generated voice, but Updike said the voice can be “anybody’s voice.” 

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“It’s a simple, easy, clean process. And then what we found is that some of our colleges and some of our major league clubs would run the tracks through an AI voice generator to create something else. Whether it was a star or a famous voice and then put it on, sometimes even recording other players, it’s kind of like your limitation is your imagination with it,” Updike said.

Updike said he heard one pitcher in college baseball customize the voice to be his favorite musician.

“I won’t give up the secret sauce for a few clubs, but like we have a college, a really good NCAA team, their Friday night guy is a real good pitcher, and he’s got a musician that he loves, or a rapper, and it’s that rappers’ voice every time they call a pitch. So, it’s unique to see how creative everybody’s been with the product,” Updike said. 

Goodwin said he heard a story about how a coach programmed the voice to be a player’s mother’s voice, and that it provided good results for the player. 

Adley Rutschman calls a pitch

Baltimore Orioles catcher Adley Rutschman covers a PitchCom device during the first inning against the Los Angeles Angels at Oriole Park at Camden Yards May 17, 2023.  (Tommy Gilligan/USA Today Sports)

“The guy had a really close relationship with his mom, and the coaches wanted to see if that in turn would kind of be a calming presence. So I thought that was pretty cool, pretty interesting. Obviously, a lot going on with sports psychology now and things like that. So, I think there are a lot of things that you can do here even from voice recognition to maybe help kids, and maybe not,” Goodwin said. 

“I do know that in the early stages of this the kid actually did very well when it happened.” 

The PitchCom’s will be given out to Perfect Game in August, and coaches and players will be able to use them for the All-American Classic and PG Select Festivals. 

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FAIRFIELD COMMUNITY HIGH SCHOOL HOLDS SPRING SPORTS AWARDS

FAIRFIELD COMMUNITY HIGH SCHOOL HOLDS SPRING SPORTS AWARDS   Wednesday night, Fairfield Community High School held an awards program honoring their outstanding athletes from the Spring Sports Season In the Lady Mule Track Awards, the Most Improved Award went to Selah Sork, the Newcomer Award went to Emeri Sager, the Amy Turner Relay Award went […]

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FAIRFIELD COMMUNITY HIGH SCHOOL HOLDS SPRING SPORTS AWARDS

 

Wednesday night, Fairfield Community High School held an awards program honoring their outstanding athletes from the Spring Sports Season

In the Lady Mule Track Awards, the Most Improved Award went to Selah Sork, the Newcomer Award went to Emeri Sager, the Amy Turner Relay Award went to Myra Copeland, the Sprint MVP Award went to Emily Vaughan, Remi Taylor was named the Field Event MVP, and Ella Sager received the Distance MVP Award

In the Boys Tennis Awards, Nick Munoz received the Most Improved Award, while Peyton Owen was named the Mules Tennis MVP

In the Mules Boys Track Awards, the Most Improved Award went to Cayson Webb, the Newcomer Award went to Ashton King, Eric Locke was named the Field Event MVP, The Relay MVP Award went to Miller Simpson, the Distance MVP Award went to Skylar Bladel, and Justin Johnson was named the Sprint MVP

In the Lady Mules Softball Awards, the Most Improved Award went to Remi McCune, the Defensive Award went to Riley Isaacs, and the Offensive Award went to Kenry Hutchcraft.  Kayden Wells was named the Most Valuable Player for the Lady Mules Softball team.

In the Mules Boys Baseball Awards, Breychan Kovacich received the Most Improved Award, the Hustle Award went to Jesse King, Karson White received the Defensive Award, and Tallen Hixenbaugh received the Offensive Award. Ian Puckett and Boston Isaacs both received the Outstanding Pitching Award.  Tallen Hixenbaugh was also named the Most Valuable Player for the Mules Baseball team while the Mule Pride Teammate Award was a given to Ayden Martin.

 

To cap off the night, Bentley Rogers was named the 2024-2025 FCHS Male Athlete of the Year, while Ella Sager was awarded the 2024-2025 FCHS Female Athlete of the Year



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New Junior Lynx Golf program tees off in Webster City | News, Sports, Jobs

A new opportunity is on the horizon for young golf enthusiasts in Webster City as the Webster City Junior Lynx Golf Program prepares to launch this summer. Registration is open now through May 31. The youth league is the result of a partnership between the Webster City Parks and Recreation Department, The Links Golf Course, […]

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A new opportunity is on the horizon for young golf enthusiasts in Webster City as the Webster City Junior Lynx Golf Program prepares to launch this summer.

Registration is open now through May 31.

The youth league is the result of a partnership between the Webster City Parks and Recreation Department, The Links Golf Course, Briggs Woods Golf Course, and Webster City Youth Golf.

Designed for students finishing fourth through eighth grades, the four-week program will take place on Tuesday and Thursday mornings in June at The Links Golf Course, with additional playing opportunities at Briggs Woods Golf Course later in the session.

The program will focus on instructional hitting, skill development, and playing experience, culminating in rounds of golf to reinforce on-course learning at the end of the program.

Participants in grades four to six will attend from 8:30 to to 10 a.m. Grades seven and eight will attend from 10 to 11:30 a.m. Each age group is limited to 18 participants, ensuring small group sizes and personalized coaching.

The Junior Lynx Golf Program will be sponsored by Webster City Youth Golf, so all costs for the program will be paid for once you sign up.

A limited number of golf clubs will be available for participants who do not have their own equipment.

The Junior Lynx program underscores the community’s commitment to youth development and active lifestyles through sport. Thanks to the collaborative efforts of local organizations and the generous support of Webster City Youth Golf, this program is poised to offer a fun, inclusive, and educational experience for the area’s young golfers.

For more information or to register, contact Fuller Hall Recreation Center at 515-832-9193 or stop by the recreation center located at 625 Bank Street, Webster City



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Former Riverside Hawks Basketball Players Rebuke Church Legal Defenses

Former players alleging sexual abuse by the multimillionaire founder of New York City’s Riverside Hawks basketball program—which pioneered the elite travel-team model of youth sports—have filed an answer in their lawsuit saying the defendant, Riverside Church, missed the mark in the church’s motion for summary judgment. Three plaintiffs, including 56-year-old Robert L. Holmes, who first […]

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Former players alleging sexual abuse by the multimillionaire founder of New York City’s Riverside Hawks basketball program—which pioneered the elite travel-team model of youth sports—have filed an answer in their lawsuit saying the defendant, Riverside Church, missed the mark in the church’s motion for summary judgment.

Three plaintiffs, including 56-year-old Robert L. Holmes, who first made public allegations against the program in 2002, have thus far filed memoranda opposing Riverside’s motion seeking dismissal of the case. The filings were authored by Michael Angelini, Lawrence W. Luttrell and other attorneys representing 15 plaintiffs alleging sexual abuse by Ernest Lorch, the basketball program’s founder and coach who died in 2012. A total of 27 plaintiffs have sued the church under New York’s Child Victims Act, claiming Lorch abused them. Though best-known in sports circles for Riverside, Lorch was also a successful corporate lawyer and CEO of a hedge fund.

The players suing the church joined the Riverside basketball program between 1970 and 2000, as the team was gaining fame for turning out hundreds of college players and dozens of NBA stars, among them Nate Archibald, Mark Jackson, Kenny Smith and Chris Mullin. Holmes and the other plaintiffs all say they were minors when the abuse took place, and can sue all these years later because the New York Child Victims Act extended the statute of limitations for survivors of child sexual assault. 

As Sportico detailed, Riverside Church motioned New York Judge Sabrina Kraus for summary judgment last month. The church claimed its officials neither knew nor had reason to know of Lorch’s abusive acts. Riverside also insisted that, as a church, it didn’t owe a duty in loco parentis. If Riverside is correct about loco parentis, it would mean the church can’t be legally faulted since it lacked the responsibilities of a parent when supervising kids. Riverside cited case law asserting that because the abuse occurred outside of a school setting, the church can’t be held liable for the actions of Lorch.

Holmes and his fellow plaintiffs see the relevant issues quite differently. Their filings urge Kraus to deny summary judgment, which a judge only grants when there is no genuine dispute as to material facts. The granting of summary judgment ends a case before it goes to trial, meaning it takes the case away from future jurors. 

As a starting point, Holmes’ memorandum criticizes Riverside for its “supposed ignorance” about Lorch—who, as a volunteer, ran the Riverside hoops program for nearly four decades until he was suspended from coaching in 2002 after Holmes told his story of abuse in the New York Daily News.

In 2010, the testimony of another plaintiff, Byron Walker, resulted in Lorch being indicted on sexual assault charges in Massachusetts, based on the ex-player’s account of an incident during a road trip in Amherst, Mass., in the 1970s. The charges never went to trial because of Lorch’s ill health before his death. 

“Considering the overwhelming testimony of the players and coaches,” the memorandum charges, “one would think [Riverside] was referring to a different Lorch, church, and set of facts.” 

The memorandum goes so far as to assert it “defies credulity” for Riverside to claim it didn’t know what was going on. The memorandum highlights that 26 other men have raised essentially the same facts and circumstances in their cases as survivors of childhood sexual assault. It also asserts that Lorch’s “misconduct” was openly discussed among players and coaches associated with Riverside and with rival teams.

Along those lines, the memorandum contends that Riverside possessed both “actual and constructive notice of the abuse” and thus can’t meet its burden for a summary judgment. The memorandum references “thousands of pages” from 25 transcripts that allegedly implicate Riverside. 

Holmes’ attorneys acknowledge that as a defendant, Riverside can challenge the veracity and accuracy of implicating transcripts and maintain they are inadmissible for a variety of reasons. But the memorandum argues that Riverside must raise such challenges with specificity. The memorandum also points out that hearsay—meaning a statement made out-of-court used to prove the truth of an assertion—may be considered in opposing a motion for summary judgment. 

Further, the memorandum disputes Riverside’s characterization of precedent regarding in loco parentis. While Riverside is not a school, Holmes’ attorneys argue that is a distinction that doesn’t end the legal analysis. The memorandum contends that Riverside should be viewed as having “the same requirements for supervising children,” since it operated a basketball program overseeing children “several nights a week.”

Holmes’ attorneys cite favorable precedent involving a stationery store, neighbors, babysitters and churches where the defendants offered services consistent with having custody and control over children.

“It goes without saying that, if a small business can assume an in loco parentis duty, so can Riverside,” the memorandum states.

To that end, the memorandum suggests it would be nonsensical for Riverside to not be treated as akin to a parent, when actual parents entrusted their children to Riverside’s basketball program and when players’ accomplishments “were celebrated at Sunday services” and detailed in a church newsletter. 

As to Lorch being a volunteer, Holmes’ attorneys contend that Lorch’s relationship with Riverside was extensive, longstanding and influential. The memorandum says he started the program in the early 1960s and ran it until around 2002 when media reports of his misconduct surfaced. During that multi-decade stretch, Lorch held a bevy of leadership positions with the church, including as deacon, president of the board of trustees and head coach who picked his staff and directed his players.

Holmes’ attorneys write that Lorch also organized “multimillion-dollar fundraisers” for the church, distributed to his players bags and uniforms that featured the Riverside Hawks logo and traveled across the U.S. and abroad as an official representative of the program.

As to Holmes and the others claiming Riverside had constructive notice—meaning it should have known of the abuse based on the circumstances and should be treated by law as knowing—the memorandum claims that between 1970 and 1999, many players were required to “line up at Lorch’s office after practice, drop their pants and underwear, and get paddled at some point.”

Lorch also allegedly openly “grabbed, rubbed and held” players buttocks during practices and made them line up for “jockstrap inspections.” 

The memorandum also addresses several witnesses, including reverends, who testified they never witnessed abuse. That is “not surprising,” the memorandum contends, since those witnesses didn’t go to practices or attend other basketball-related events where abuse occurred. As the plaintiffs’ attorneys see it, “Riverside didn’t seem to care what was happening,” and the “absence of records involved reflects that institutional indifference.”

Kraus will weigh the dueling arguments. If she denies Riverside’s motion for summary judgment, the case will proceed to trial. There is also a distinct possibility the case settles before a trial, assuming the church, its insurance companies and Holmes can identify an acceptable arrangement. Judge Alexander Tisch will also be ruling on motions in the multiple Riverside lawsuits.

(This story has been updated in the last paragraph to add additional context that Judge Alexander Tisch will also be ruling on the Riverside lawsuits.)



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Pistons vice chairman Arn Tellem ‘hearing positive things’ on Detroit’s WNBA expansion

Detroit — From representing an era defined by teal jerseys, Basketball Hall of Famer Grant Hill has fond memories of his five-year tenure with the Detroit Pistons. Outside of the dunks and game-winning plays that made him one of the best players in franchise history, scrimmaging against the Detroit Shock during his offseason training in […]

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Detroit — From representing an era defined by teal jerseys, Basketball Hall of Famer Grant Hill has fond memories of his five-year tenure with the Detroit Pistons. Outside of the dunks and game-winning plays that made him one of the best players in franchise history, scrimmaging against the Detroit Shock during his offseason training in the late 1990s is one of Hill’s best memories.

Nearly 30 years later, memories of playing against the Shock have led to Hill and his wife Tamia being among several promising equity investors hoping to bring the WNBA back to Detroit. In January, an investment group led by Pistons owner Tom Gores formally announced an expansion bid for a WNBA franchise.

“I think the momentum and movement in women’s sports overall, the time is now,” Hill said during the 2025 Mackinac Policy Conference on Wednesday afternoon. “The WNBA is on this incredible growth trajectory. For me, to do it in Detroit and to come back to a city where it all started, there is a passion and a sense of pride for all things Detroit, particularly their sports teams.”

The idea of bringing the WNBA back to Detroit began nearly 10 years ago when Gores sought out Pistons vice chairman Arn Tellem as someone who could help him use the Pistons to make a significant impact on the community.

This idea began to take shape once the WNBA announced plans to expand the league to 16 teams by 2028. Reports indicate that Houston Nashville, and Philadelphia have all submitted bids to bring a franchise to their respective markets. However, Detroit has heard “positive things” from the league office.

“I would not be sitting here today if I wasn’t optimistic,” Tellem said Wednesday from the Mackinac conference. “Keep your fingers crossed. Hope to hear good news here very soon.”

Tellem revealed that the WNBA has been impressed by Detroit’s diverse ownership group, which includes Sheila Hamp and General Motors CEO Mary Barra. Other investors include NBA Hall of Famer and Detroit native Chris Webber, Jared Goff and his wife, Christen, Roger and Carin Ehrenberg, Ethan and Gretchen Davidson, Denise Ilitch, KC and Ashley Crain, and Larry Brinker Jr.

“I wanted to send the statement to the NBA and the WNBA about the power of Detroit; the greatest strength of Detroit is its people,” Tellem said. “We wanted to show the collaborative spirit and its pride. We have a tremendous group, and I am really excited about it. I think, when you go back to our chances, Adam (Silver) and the WNBA have all said that we have blown them away with our ownership group. They were so impressed.”

Detroit’s chances of landing a WNBA franchise received an additional boost when it comes to meeting the league’s requirement to provide a preeminent facility to its players and staff. In addition to putting together a plan to meet the league’s amenities, the facility would also operate as a youth sports complex.

“It’s going to serve all the kids of Detroit,” Tellem said. “The idea is to promote youth sports and to break down barriers to access. To give every child in Detroit (the opportunity) to play and compete, no matter their zip code.”

Tellem confirmed that the production site along the Detroit riverfront, just west of the MacArthur Bridge leading to Belle Isle, will serve as the WNBA practice facility and multipurpose complex.

“In the youth academy, to have five or six high school-level basketball courts, each of which can be converted into volleyball courts,” Tellem said. “To have NBA-level locker rooms and weight training facilities. Sheila had the idea of adding playing fields for soccer and flag football. I think it will be a great academy. The whole community and city would love it.”

The Shock was one of the first expansion teams of the WNBA in 1998. Headlined by basketball Hall of Famer Swin Cash, the franchise existed in Detroit for 12 years, during which time the Shock captured three WNBA titles. In Game 3 of the 2003 WNBA Finals against the Los Angeles Sparks, Detroit set a single-game attendance record with 22,076 fans. 

“When you see over 21,000 packing out The Palace of Auburn Hills, which still holds the record today, we always knew what the WNBA could be,” Cash said. “My fondest memory is watching where the league is and understanding how many women that played in Detroit, to have another opportunity to cheer on a team that you all could bring back to the city.”

In 2009, the team relocated to Tulsa, Oklahoma, and later moved again to Dallas, where it is now known as the Dallas Wings. 

At the start of the 2025 season, the WNBA welcomed its 13th franchise, the Golden State Valkyries, who are currently 2-2 in their inaugural year. With the additions of Portland and Toronto, the league will expand to 15 teams next year.

“To see what Swin and her team did, to bring that magic back to the city, is something that is really exciting,” Hill said. “It’s a great time to invest in women’s sports, and there could not be a better place than Detroit.”

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