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What’s the best way to coach youth sports? We asked 3 former pros turned coaches

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Editor’s Note: This story is a part of Peak, The Athletic’s new desk covering leadership, personal development and success through the lens of sports. Peak aims to connect readers to ideas they can implement in their own personal and professional lives. Follow Peak here.

More than anyone, professional athletes have been exposed to a wide range of leadership and coaching styles. When they leave professional sports behind and start coaching young athletes, they have plenty of experience to draw from.

We checked in with three former professional athletes who now coach youth sports to gather their advice for other coaches and parents.

Remember why you’re there

Drew Stanton was an NFL quarterback for 14 seasons and now coaches his son’s football and baseball teams, as well as helping run a youth football organization.

He said he’s noticed that kids are harder on themselves now than they were when he was a young athlete.

As youth sports become increasingly intense, he often reminds kids why they’re playing in the first place.

“We just become so wrapped up in the results of it as opposed to, ‘What is the intentionality behind what you’re trying to do?’ ” Stanton said. “Control the controllables. You get wrapped up in somebody else’s success, or you start comparing yourself, and you start to rob these children of their childhood because we’ve become hyper-focused on making them professionals at such a young age.

“I think the ability to teach life lessons through sports has always been my approach.”

He encourages his athletes to focus on setting their own goals and acknowledge that mistakes are learning opportunities.

“We have to stick to the process,” he said. “Sitting there and yelling or trying to break them down to build them back up, that doesn’t need to happen. These kids already break themselves down enough, or they look to social media to gain their understanding or worth from how many likes they get.”

Travis Snider, a former MLB outfielder, now leads a youth sports company that offers resources and education for parents and coaches. It’s essential, he said, that adults remind athletes that failure isn’t a bad thing.

“We’re trying to teach kids more skills, but with that understanding of where they’re at emotionally and physically,” he said. “These are just experiences that give us an opportunity to learn and grow, and oftentimes failure is a much better vehicle to learn these lessons and grow and become a better version of yourself.”

Know what you value as a coach

Matt Hasselbeck spent 18 seasons as a quarterback in the NFL. He spent one season playing for Pete Carroll, someone he viewed as completely authentic. It’s what he admired about Carroll. But now, after coaching high school football, he realizes just how important it is to find your own identity.

“Put in some speed bumps for yourself,” Hasselbeck said. “Maybe even write some stuff down. Like, here are some non-negotiables — who I am as a coach.”

Hasselbeck, who has non-negotiables like no cursing and putting health and safety above all else, has picked up a few examples. When his son, Henry, played for former NFL quarterback Trent Dilfer, Dilfer had a rule that no one was allowed to sit at a new table during a meal unless all the other tables were full.

“So if you just picture there’s 10 seats at a table, it’s not a table of four, then somebody else starts a table of 10,” he said. “No. Every table has to be full before you can start another table. That’s just community. No one gets left out. No one’s not valuable. No one doesn’t have friends.”

Understand who your players are as people

One year, when Hasselbeck coached high school football, a lot of “mental mistakes” happened along the offensive line, he said. When Hasselbeck approached his offensive line coach and suggested they simplify a few things, the coach, who was also a math teacher at the school, replied, “No. No, that’s not the issue. This is one of the smartest kids I teach. He’s capable. This is just a teenage boy having a focus problem.”

That’s when Hasselbeck began to understand the strong link between learning the little things about his athletes and improving their play.

“Like, ‘Hey, we know this guy struggles learning. Let’s make his menu a little smaller so he can do less better. It’ll help him succeed. He’s got enough on his plate,’ ” Hasselbeck said. “I think just doing less is better.”

To him, even small things, like knowing what someone’s commute from home or family structure looks like, can make a significant difference.

Being uncomfortable can be a good thing

Stanton feels strongly about the lessons we can learn from sports, including trust, respect, and effective communication. But to him, embracing adversity is one of the most important lessons he wants to pass along to his athletes.

“I’m telling the kids, ‘I want you to be comfortable when it’s uncomfortable,’” he said. “Because we’re all in different situations. If you can learn to deal with adversity, if you can learn to deal with all these other things and be able to find a way to persevere, that’s how you grow. Eventually, you’re going to find something or somebody that’s better than you. And what do you do? How do you respond?”

To Stanton, it can be as simple as changing the way you speak to an athlete when they make a mistake. Encouraging them, rather than reprimanding them, can help a young athlete develop a better outlook over time.

Be mindful as a parent

Youth sports require more specialized training, travel, and equipment than ever before. Snider said parents and coaches can’t let the time and money they invest in young athletes turn into added pressure.

“It’s tough to differentiate your child and their experience in sports versus the time, money and energy that you’re investing in and what that return on investment looks like,” he said. “We built a culture that is geared towards performance and achievement. But your failure and success are not going to define who you are.”

Snider believes that if parents and coaches can work on themselves and gain a deeper understanding of how their experiences influence their responses, it can be the difference between a positive experience for a young athlete and a negative one, which is particularly important at such an impressionable age.

“We don’t recognize how our past experiences show up in those moments when our son or daughter strikes out or misses the kick and how that perpetuates something inside of us that we haven’t processed or we weren’t aware of,” Snider said. “We’re a product of our childhood and what that generation of parents and coaches did and did not do during that experience. What can we do? It’s making child development a priority.”

Elise Devlin is a writer for Peak, The Athletic’s new desk covering leadership, personal development and success. She last wrote about how to deal with failure. Follow Peak here.

(Illustration: Dan Goldfarb / The Athletic; Photos: Nick Cammett / Diamond Images, Rex Brown / Getty Images)



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Mishawaka’s Terry Elkins is The Tribune’s high school Student of the Week for Dec. 8

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Dec. 15, 2025, 1:25 p.m. ET

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Congratulations to Terry Elkins of Mishawaka High School! He was voted by Tribune readers as the South Bend Tribune Student of the Week for Dec. 8. The school could not arrange a photo to be taken of Terry.

Winner: Terry Elkins, Mishawaka High School

Terry Elkins, Mishawaka High School: Terry is amazing and has grown up so much this past year. He is always looking for ways to help and to be kind! He moves desks when his friends in wheelchairs need room to sit and navigate the classroom. He reads and explains what he is seeing and experiencing to his one friend who is unable to see but is very interested in what is happening. I can always count on Terry to participate and to help others. He quietly avoids any negativity that may take place and even tries to solve situations in order to encourage others to feel better about themselves or the given situations. I am so proud of his progress and who he is becoming. Love that kid!



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DANCERS PERFORM — The ballet class at the Sycamore Youth Center, above, performed for audiences to showcase what they learned during the fall semester. Dancers included, from left, front, Gretl Nelson, Faye Lash, Piper Manuel and Ellie Janik; and back, instructor Diana Tygett, Luna Dickey, Zoe Nelson, Teibe Banga and Laura Schlich. Students also included Eden Graham, Emmie Graham, Elise Graham, Miriam Zaleski and Geneva Terry. Below, students who took part in the jazz dance class and performed included, from left, Manuel, Lash, Tygett, Zaleski, Schlich, Cana Frank, and Dickey. Emma and Elise Graham took the class as well.
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STEUBENVILLE — The Sycamore Youth Center held its end-of-semester ballet and jazz dance recitals Dec. 1, giving students the opportunity to showcase what they learned this fall in the center’s free programs. Classes are taught each week by longtime instructor Diana Tygett, whose dedication and encouragement have helped the young dancers grow in skill and confidence.

The ballet class performed a graceful routine demonstrating their progress in technique and foundational movement. Dancers included: Luna Dickey, Zoe Nelson, Teibe Banga, Laura Schlich, Gretl Nelson, Faye Lash, Piper Manuel, Ellie Janik, Miriam Zaleski, Geneva Terry and Eden, Emmie and Elise Graham.

Tygett shared how the ballet class focuses on technique and personal development.

“The girls learned basic ballet positions, technique and strengthening, while increasing their confidence and abilities,” she explained. “Watching them grow in grace, poise and courage each week has been a joy.”

The jazz dance class presented an upbeat routine featuring a variety of jazz styles and steps during the performance. Students taking the class included Piper Manuel, Faye Lash, Diana Tygett, Miriam Zaleski, Laura Schlich, Cana Frank, and Luna Dickey, Emmie Graham and Elise Graham.

Tygett emphasized the jazz class blends structure with creativity.

“The girls learned jazz techniques and steps to a variety of styles in a fun and engaging way,” she said.

Sycamore Youth Center Executive Director Bobbyjon Bauman praised the students and their instructor, saying, “We are incredibly proud of these young dancers and thankful for Diana’s outstanding leadership. Providing free arts opportunities allows children to develop their gifts in a supportive environment, and today’s recitals showed how much they have grown.”

The Sycamore Youth Center serves more than 500 kindergarten through 12th-grade students weekly through more than 40 free classes and programs, including dance, art, music, tutoring, leadership training and life skills.





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Crookston 5th grade girls basketball win Sacred Heart tourney – KROX

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The Crookston Youth Basketball Association’s (CYBA) 5th-grade girls basketball team went 3-0 and won the Sacred Heart Tournament on Saturday. 

They defeated Sacred Heart in the first round, won a close game against Riverside Christian in the second round, and beat East Grand Forks in the finals to claim the title.
Members of the team are Ashlyn Goering, Mireyah Magdaleno, Annie Kollin, Freya Brekken, Lily Griffin, Valor Klinnert, Penny Smith, and Evelyn Applequist.

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Members of the team are Ashlyn Goering, Annie Kollin, Crookston 5th grade girls basketball team, Evelyn Applequist, Freya Brekken, Lily Griffin, Mireyah Magdaleno, Penny Smith, sports, The Crookston Youth Basketball Association’s (CYBA) 5th-grade girls basketball team went 3-0 and won the Sacred Heart Tournament on Saturday.  They defeated Sacred Heart in the first round, Valor Klinnert, won a close game against Riverside Christian in the second round



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Donald E. Olsommer, Sr. Obituary

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Donald E. Olsommer, Sr., 86, of Sterling, passed away peacefully on December 11, at the Hospice of the Sacred Heart Inpatient Unit in Dunmore, surrounded by his loving family.

He is survived by his wife of 66 years, Janet (Hinds) Olsommer.

Born in Scranton, he was the son of the late Felix C. Olsommer and Emily (Jones) Olsommer. He was a graduate of Greene-Dreher-Sterling High School, Class of 1958.

Prior to retirement, Don was the founder and owner of Olsommer-Clarke Insurance Group, established in 1972, with offices in Hamlin, Honesdale, and Moscow. He also owned and operated the Olsommer Tree Farm in Sterling. A man of deep faith, he served for 17 years as Pastor of Smith Hill United Methodist Church and was a lifelong member of Sterling United Methodist Church.

A United States Army Veteran, Don served with distinction for more than 30 years in the Pennsylvania National Guard, retiring with the rank of Major. He enlisted at age 18 in 1958 with the Honesdale National Guard and completed basic training at Fort Knox, Kentucky, and Fort Jackson, South Carolina. He initially served with the 109th Infantry in Honesdale, later transferring to the New Jersey National Guard, where he served with the 53rd Tank Battalion and became a full-time supply sergeant.

After completing officer training at the New Jersey Military Academy in Sea Girt, New Jersey, and Officer Candidate School at Fort Sill, Oklahoma, he advanced through the officer ranks. In 1971, he returned to Pennsylvania and served as company commander for National Guard units in Carbondale, Honesdale, Scranton, and Tobyhanna Reserve Unit.

Don dedicated much of his life to public service. He served the citizens of Wayne County as County Commissioner from 1980-1991 and again from 2004-2007. He also served as a Township Supervisor, Former Wayne County Republican Chairman, and was deeply involved in civic and charitable efforts throughout the community.

He was an avid outdoorsman who enjoyed hunting and fishing, golf, and tending his tree farm. He was a gifted athlete in high school and remained a lifelong supporter of Delaware Valley and Penn State football. Don was passionate about youth sports, serving as a coach, and was a co-founder of Sterling Little League. He was inducted into the Wayne County Sports Hall of Fame, was a member of American Legion Post 807 and a 50 year member of the Salem Masonic Lodge #330.

Most of all, Don cherished time spent with his family.

Surviving in addition to his wife are his three sons: Donald E. Olsommer, Jr. and his wife Alene of Sterling; Pennsylvania State Representative, the Honorable Jeff Olsommer, and his wife Kelli of Sterling; and Keith Olsommer and his wife Mary Ann of Sterling; a sister, Helen Leahey of Georgia; grandchildren Phoebe, Betsy, Garrett, Mackenzie, Logan, and Liam; great-grandchildren Charli, Daisy, and Genevieve; and several nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his twin brother, Ronald F. Olsommer.

A Funeral Service will be held Friday, December 19th at 11:00 a.m. at Sterling United Methodist Church, 567 Sterling Road, Sterling, PA. The service will be live-streamed on the James Wilson Funeral Home Facebook page.

Friends may call Thursday, December 18th from 3:00-7:00 p.m. at the James Wilson Funeral Home, 143 Gravity Road, Lake Ariel, and Friday from 9:30-11:00 a.m. at the church.

Private interment will be held at Fairview Memorial Park, Elmhurst.

Memorial contributions in Don’s memory may be made to Sterling United Methodist Church, PO Box 25, Sterling, Pa 18463 or the Smith Hill United Methodist Church, 305 Sunrise Ave. Honesdale, Pa 18431.

For directions, to share a memory, or to leave a condolence for the family, please visit www.jamesfamilyfunerals.com

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Lionesses nominated for SPOTY team of 2025

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Voting is now open for the award at the BBC Sports Personality of the Year show on Thursday 18 December

England’s senior women’s team have been nominated for the BBC Sports Personality of the Year’s ‘Team of the Year’ award for 2025.

The Lionesses, who won a second successive UEFA Women’s EURO championship in July, will be up against the European Ryder Cup team who were triumphant against the USA this summer, and the England women’s rugby team who won the Rugby World Cup on home soil to complete a historic summer of women’s sport.

Voting is now open and will close during the live show, which takes place from 7pm on Thursday 18 December live on BBC One, the BBC iPlayer and BBC Sport website.

The news follows on from Lionesses’ Chloe Kelly and Hannah Hampton being nominated for the main award last week, along with Michelle Agyemang being a contender for ‘Young Sports Personality of the Year’.

Make sure you register your vote for the Lionesses now!



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Events and athlete quota for Dolomiti Valtellina 2028 announced

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15 December 2025 – The International Olympic Committee (IOC) today announced the event programme and athlete quota for the Dolomiti Valtellina 2028 Winter Youth Olympic Games (YOG). The programme introduces a shorter competition period of eight days with around 1,600 athletes – about 20 per cent fewer than at Gangwon 2024. This decision was approved by the IOC Executive Board (EB) last week.

KEY FACTS

  • The International Olympic Committee today announced the event programme and athlete quota for the Dolomiti Valtellina 2028 Winter Youth Olympic Games.
  • The programme introduces a shorter competition period of eight days with about 1,600 athletes in fewer competition venues (mainly those from the 2026 Winter Olympics), reducing operational and rental costs.
  • The programme will include the seven core Winter Olympic sports (biathlon, bobsleigh, curling, ice hockey, luge, skating and skiing) and eight new events, including synchronised skating, mixed singles luge, moguls, and rail events for freestyle skiing and snowboarding, while 15 events from Gangwon will no longer be on the programme.

The Games will be held across fewer competition venues, mainly using existing infrastructure from the Milano Cortina 2026 Olympic Winter Games, thereby reducing operational and rental costs. The programme will cover the seven core Winter Olympic sports (biathlon, bobsleigh, curling, ice hockey, luge, skating and skiing). No decision was taken on additional sports proposed by the Youth Olympic Games Organising Committee (YOGOC) since the YOGOC has not yet been established. This decision will be taken in 2026, subject to alignment with the programme principles, particularly the use of existing venues and infrastructure.

Eight events are making their debut on the Winter YOG programme to further boost appeal and youth engagement, including synchronised skating, mixed singles luge, moguls, and rail events for freestyle skiing and snowboarding, while 15 events from Gangwon will no longer be on the programme.

The rail events, which were recently added to the International Ski and Snowboard Federation (FIS) calendar, are geographically accessible and conducive to indoor training with minimal snow, and can be delivered cost effectively using existing slopestyle infrastructure.

“This programme represents an important step forward for the Winter YOG,” said Karl Stoss, IOC Member and Chair of the Olympic Programme Commission. “It reflects a clear commitment to sustainability, innovation and youth-focused sports formats. Most importantly, it ensures that Dolomiti Valtellina 2028 will offer young athletes a world-class experience aligned with their development needs and the facilities of the host region.”

The EB’s decision finalises the event programme and athlete quota, following a comprehensive review conducted in close collaboration with the relevant International Federations (IFs). The programme aims to deliver a high-quality, elite-level youth competition that reflects athlete development pathways and youth-specific formats. It also seeks to reduce the scale and operational complexity of the event to better suit its youth-focused nature and the local context, all with a continued commitment to full gender equality.

The approval of the event programme represents a significant step forward in the preparations for Dolomiti Valtellina 2028 and underlines the IOC’s ongoing commitment to finding cost efficiencies for the hosts.

DAKAR 2026

At its meeting last week, the IOC Executive Board also received an update on the Dakar 2026 YOG, which are now less than a year away. The Organising Committee recently marked the one-year-to-go milestone with the unveiling of its mascot Ayo, the launch of the OMEGA countdown clock and the Dakar en Jeux festival, which included a testing opportunity through an international futsal competition and a recent equestrian event.

With under a year remaining, the YOGOC has now entered the readiness phase, focusing on finalising venue refurbishments, operational planning and capacity building. It has also launched its volunteer recruitment campaign, Jambaar26, with applications open until 31 January.



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