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The Human Behind the Athlete

I answered the phone to the sound of the outdoors—a calm but welcoming voice on the other line. “The Pacific Northwest grass is different than in Miami,” NBA star Kevin Love said, speaking from his parents’ home days after the Miami Heat lost to the Cavaliers in Game 1 of their playoff series—a game Kevin […]

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The Human Behind the Athlete

I answered the phone to the sound of the outdoors—a calm but welcoming voice on the other line. “The Pacific Northwest grass is different than in Miami,” NBA star Kevin Love said, speaking from his parents’ home days after the Miami Heat lost to the Cavaliers in Game 1 of their playoff series—a game Kevin sat out for personal reasons.

I asked him to paint a picture of the human behind the Kevin Love Fund (KLF)’s newly announced Athlete Mental Health Program, a project poised to impact more lives than his NBA career ever could. Kevin described himself bundled in a hoodie and sweatpants despite the Oregon sun. Shoes and socks off, he laughed. These weren’t his usual interview questions.

The Kevin Love Fund Story

I told Kevin I wanted to focus on the stories behind the KLF and Athlete Mental Health Program’s creation—the moments that led him here. While his story’s been shared before, he returned to themes of unpacking expectations and trauma.

“I felt like I had to hide. I had to go into myself and try to compartmentalize. I asked myself, am I going to be exposed? Are people going to find things out about me that I’m not ready to tell?

In March 2018, Kevin published a first-person essay—Everyone Is Going Through Something—recounting his panic attack and mental health journey. The response was overwhelming. Readers opened up, sharing their own struggles. That moment revealed something bigger at stake.

Inspired, Kevin founded KLF, a nonprofit built on the belief that education is most powerful when it models vulnerability. Healing, he believes, begins when people are empowered to find identity beyond sport.

KLF now transforms how we understand and talk about mental health—especially in athletics. Through storytelling, education, and evidence-based tools, KLF helps athletes and communities navigate both the high-pressure world of sport and the often-overlooked transition beyond it.

The Athlete Mental Health Program Story

On May 1, 2025, the KLF launches a free, evidence-based mental health program for athletes to foster identity beyond sport. The Athlete Mental Health Program includes lessons on identity development, tools for performance anxiety and stress, and creating conversations around mental and emotional well-being in sports. Built with input from sport psychologists, educators, and former athletes, it equips coaches and broader sports communities to support the whole person—not just the competitor.

The KLF Athlete Mental Health Program is grounded in over a decade of research on reciprocal vulnerability—the idea that when adults model emotional openness, youth are more likely to engage in meaningful mental health conversations (Dutro, 2009; 2011; 2019; Foster, 2022).

The Athlete Mental Health Program is now freely available to educators, coaches, trainers, and anyone supporting student-athletes. For more information or to access the curriculum, visit: https://kevinlovefund.org/

A Story About Success

When I asked Kevin to share a story that reflects the Fund’s success, he hesitated, deferring to his publicist for the “numbers.” But then he smiled.

He recalled the 2018 article: “If I could help even one child managing the same expectations I had at 13 or 14, it would be worth it.” KLF continues to honor that vision—ensuring no athlete feels alone in their mental health struggles the way he once did.

The publicist later shared the numbers: KLF’s SEL curriculum has reached over 130,000 students and 1,900 educators across 1,200+ schools and programs in 32 states and 19 countries.

A Story About Regret

When I asked Kevin to share a story about regret, he didn’t flinch.

“There are things I’ve said or done that I’d take back,” he said. But more often, regret stemmed from what he didn’t do.

He recalled a teacher who once urged him to take a different path. Years later, he wrote that teacher a letter—acknowledging the truth in their advice.

“My regret is that I didn’t act sooner to help myself heal. Whether because I was young, shaped by a hypermasculine culture, or raised by a father born in 1949 who didn’t know another way. Vulnerability wasn’t modeled—it was avoided.”

He reflected on the generational silence around emotion. “I wish I’d been comfortable enough in my skin to realize vulnerability could be a superpower.”

A Story About Being on the Right Path

Kevin said he knew he was on the right path once his story was accepted—celebrated, even.

He paused on the word “celebrated,” aware of its weight. “I’m a product of sharing my story—just like DeMar DeRozan was. It’s healthy to celebrate people who take a chance for the greater good.”

One moment sealed it. At games, kids started holding signs—not about basketball, but mental health. Kevin asked security to bring those families to him. “I’d ask, How did you get here? Why did you make the sign?” And the stories he heard—stories of resilience and shared pain—shifted something in him.

“That’s when I knew this was bigger than basketball. It changed the trajectory of my life.”

An Untold Story

“This whole process—expressing some, not all (yet), of my mental health struggles—has made me more comfortable in my own skin,” Kevin said.

He told a lesser-known story from his early days with his now-wife. His social anxiety was so severe, he couldn’t go out—not even to dinner. “My wife can tell you—when we first started dating, I couldn’t go to a restaurant.”

It wasn’t just discomfort. It was agoraphobia—fear of public embarrassment or collapse. “At any moment, I could fall apart disproportionately to the situation.”

His world shrank: gym, then home—places he could control. But over time, he did the work.

“I’m flawed. I’m still working on it. I’m not a finished project. But I’m more settled now. I’m human. Just a guy—not just an athlete.”

That acceptance, he said, lets him engage in life in ways that once felt out of reach.

A Story (Almost) Told Too Late

I didn’t ask what he’d tell his 13-year-old self—he offered it anyway.

“Nothing haunts us like the things we don’t say. I wish I’d spoken my truth sooner. I let things get to a place that felt life-threatening.”

Silence nearly cost him everything. But breaking it? It opened doors—for himself and others. “Speaking up helped me see red flags before spiraling. Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s often the first step to saving a life.”

The Final Story

At the start of the interview, I told Kevin I wanted to reveal the human behind the KLF Athlete Mental Health Fund. I wanted to move beyond the headlines and game highlights. And I did.

But what lingered most wasn’t just the curriculum, or the program reach, or the quotes.

It was the image of Kevin barefoot in his parents’ Oregon yard—finding peace. Not as an NBA champion. Not as a mental health advocate. Just a guy who’s still doing the work, showing up, and reminding the world:

“Athletics can be a defining part of life—but it should not define your entire identity.”

Shortly after the interview, Kevin’s beloved father, Stan Love, passed away at the age of 76. May he rest in peace.

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Sports psychiatrist explains effect of heckling following incident involving Ketel Marte

PHOENIX (AZFamily) — Earlier this week, Arizona Diamondbacks star Ketel Marte was brought to tears by a heckler who reportedly made comments about his late mother during the team’s game against the Chicago White Sox. According to MLB.com, the spectator made a derogatory remark about Marte’s mother, who passed away in a car accident in […]

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Sports psychiatrist explains effect of heckling following incident involving Ketel Marte

PHOENIX (AZFamily) — Earlier this week, Arizona Diamondbacks star Ketel Marte was brought to tears by a heckler who reportedly made comments about his late mother during the team’s game against the Chicago White Sox.

According to MLB.com, the spectator made a derogatory remark about Marte’s mother, who passed away in a car accident in 2017.

Arizona’s Family spoke to sports psychiatrist Brook Choulet, M.D., about the effects inappropriate comments have on athletes’ mental health. She says this incident is a reminder that athletes are people, too, while viewers may sometimes see them just as performers.

“Because we’re watching them on TV, you forget and you lose touch that they go through a lot of the same things that we go through, stress, anxiety, family challenges. So to see this is such a human display of that person behind the sport,” she said.

D-backs manager Torey Lovullo consoled Marte after the fans’ outburst. Choulet explained this culture shift between coaches and players in today’s game versus years past.

“Before, it’s like suck it up, you know, just move on, focus on next play mentality, and now we’re really seeing coaches treating them as humans, too, beyond their sport,” she explained. “That’s the biggest thing I talk to athletes about is their identity is often tied to their sport. So when we can separate that athlete from the sport and see them and treat them as a person, I love to see that.”

Following the incident, many have shown support for the Diamondbacks and Marte, including the White Sox displaying a sign that read, “Baseball is family. The White Sox community supports Ketel Marte.”

Officials confirmed the heckler was banned from all Major League Baseball stadiums.

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California violated Title IX in transgender athlete clash, Education Department says

WASHINGTON — The Trump administration has found that the California Department of Education and the state’s high school sports federation violated civil rights law by allowing transgender girls to compete on girls sports teams. The federal Education Department announced the finding Wednesday and proposed a resolution that would require California to bar transgender women from women’s sports and strip […]

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California violated Title IX in transgender athlete clash, Education Department says

WASHINGTON — The Trump administration has found that the California Department of Education and the state’s high school sports federation violated civil rights law by allowing transgender girls to compete on girls sports teams.

The federal Education Department announced the finding Wednesday and proposed a resolution that would require California to bar transgender women from women’s sports and strip transgender athletes of records, titles and awards. It’s the latest escalation in the Republican administration’s effort to bar transgender athletes from women’s sports teams nationwide.

If California rejects the proposal, the Education Department could move to terminate the state’s federal education funding.

“The Trump Administration will relentlessly enforce Title IX protections for women and girls, and our findings today make clear that California has failed to adhere to its obligations under federal law,” Education Secretary Linda McMahon said. “The state must swiftly come into compliance with Title IX or face the consequences that follow.”

Title IX is a 1972 law forbidding sex discrimination based in education.

California education and sports officials did not immediately respond to requests for comment Wednesday.

Federal officials opened an investigation into the California Interscholastic Federation in February after the organization said it would abide by a state law allowing athletes to compete on teams consistent with their gender identity. That followed an executive order signed by President Donald Trump that was intended to ban transgender athletes from participating in girls and women’s sports.

In April, McMahon’s department opened an investigation into the California Department of Education over the same issue.

Both investigations concluded that state policies violated Title IX. The administration has been invoking the law in its campaign against transgender athletes, launching scores of investigations into schools, colleges and states. It’s a reversal from the Biden administration, which attempted to expand Title IX to provide protections for transgender students. A federal judge struck down the expansion before Trump took office in January.

The administration’s proposed resolution would require California to notify schools that transgender athletes should be barred from girls athletic teams and that all schools must “adopt biology-based definitions of the words ‘male’ and ‘female.’ ” The state also would have to notify schools that any conflicting interpretation of state law would be considered a violation of Title IX.

Athletes who lost awards, titles or records to transgender athletes would have their honors restored under the proposal, and the state would be required to send personal apology letters to those athletes.

A similar resolution was offered to Maine’s education agency in a separate clash with the administration over transgender athletes. Maine rejected the proposal in April, prompting a Justice Department lawsuit seeking to terminate the state’s federal education funding.

Under federal guidelines, California’s education office and the sports federation have 10 days to come into compliance or risk enforcement action.

The federation separately tested a pilot policy at a state track meet in May, allowing one extra competitor in three events featuring high school junior AB Hernandez, who is transgender. The organization announced the change after Trump took to social medial to criticize Hernandez’s participation. The Justice Department said it would investigate Hernandez’s district and the state to determine whether Title IX was being violated.

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Florida assault survivor shares hope for change with new mental health law

Governor Ron DeSantis signed Senate Bill 168, the Tristin Murphy Act to tackle mental health issues and prevent crime. JACKSONVILLE, Fla. — A new law signed today by governor Ron Desantis is aimed at tackling mental health issues and preventing crime. Senate Bill 168, also known as the Tristin Murphy Act, will provide counties with […]

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Governor Ron DeSantis signed Senate Bill 168, the Tristin Murphy Act to tackle mental health issues and prevent crime.

JACKSONVILLE, Fla. — A new law signed today by governor Ron Desantis is aimed at tackling mental health issues and preventing crime.

Senate Bill 168, also known as the Tristin Murphy Act, will provide counties with the resources to create mental health programs for certain offenders, instead of sending them straight to jail. 

First Coast News first introduced you to a woman, who is asking to not be identified for safety reasons, back in May.

“It’s one of those scenarios that you never think would happen to you,” she said.

She and her friend were attacked by a man while walking along the Southbank Riverwalk near the friendship fountain.

The man was arrested and police identified him as Talmadge Billingslea Jr. He has a long history of stalking, violence and making racially motivated statements.

The women shared their story in hopes of getting Billingslea and other offenders help.

“He needs mental help and until you solve the base problem, jail is not going to do anything. It doesn’t seem like a solution to me,” the woman said.

Florida lawmakers are now trying to solve this problem.

On Wednesday, the Governor signed Senate bill 168, the Tristin Murphy Act, which allows counties to establish misdemeanor mental health programs and pretrial felony programs to prevent people who are mentally ill from being incarcerated.

“We don’t think putting them in jail is always going to fix those problems, and people need to be held accountable, but you also need to provide support that will address the problem,” said Governor Desantis.

The bill will also require emergency responder training and mental health evaluations for people with a history of incompetency before they are released on probation and return to society.

“I’m hoping that the bill helps them get the help they need and gets off the streets eventually and maybe into getting a job and living on their own. It’s a start and I think that’s great,” said one victim. 

Talmadge Billingslea Jr. is still behind bars with a bond set at $19,000.

He makes his next court appearance on July 8.

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McDonald named volleyball assistant coach

Story Links SLIPPERY ROCK, Pa. – Raquel McDonald will join the Slippery Rock University volleyball program as an assistant coach, head coach Dylan Lasher announced Wednesday. “We’re very excited to have Raquel join our program,” said Lasher. “She will bring a great deal of energy, work ethic and commitment to SRU. Raquel’s passion, successful playing career […]

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SLIPPERY ROCK, Pa. – Raquel McDonald will join the Slippery Rock University volleyball program as an assistant coach, head coach Dylan Lasher announced Wednesday.
 
“We’re very excited to have Raquel join our program,” said Lasher. “She will bring a great deal of energy, work ethic and commitment to SRU. Raquel’s passion, successful playing career and coaching ability will be extremely beneficial to our players, staff and community.”
 
McDonald comes to The Rock after spending two successful seasons on Lasher’s staff at Thiel College.
 
“I’m looking forward to starting this new chapter at Slippery Rock University and am excited for the opportunity to grow, contribute, face challenges and work alongside a great team,” said McDonald. “Let’s get to work!”
 
During her time at Thiel, McDonald assisted in all facets of the volleyball program and helped Lasher turn around the Tomcats’ women’s team that after going just 3-22 in 2023 compiled an impressive 17-9 record in 2024.
 
The 2024 season not only marked the second-highest victory total inside the Thiel women’s program since 2012, The 14-win improvement from 2023 to 2024 was the second-best year-to-year improvement among all 419 NCAA Division III women’s volleyball programs last fall.
 
McDonald was also an assistant for the Thiel men’s program which concluded its 2025 season with a 22-7 record that included a perfect 12-0 showing in the Presidents’ Athletic Conference, a PAC Tournament championship and an NCAA Tournament berth.
 
Prior to embarking on her coaching career, McDonald was a standout middle blocker for Thiel from 2019-22. Over 95 career matches, McDonald totaled 208 blocks, 660 kills and a .247 attack percentage while being named an All-PAC honoree on three occasions in addition to earning a spot on the College Sports Communicators Academic All-America Team as a senior.
 
McDonald, who ranks second in Tomcat program history in career attack percentage and ninth in total blocks, graduated from Thiel with her bachelor’s in cognitive psychology, sociology and criminal justice while minoring in Spanish. She is currently finishing her master’s in special education from SRU. 

Outside of volleyball, McDonald has served as a Behavioral Health Technician at George Junior Republic, taught Spanish at Kennedy Catholic High School and was the Director of Student Services at the William Penn Academy.
 
A native of Syracuse, New York, McDonald officially began her new role at SRU this week.
 
The Slippery Rock volleyball team opens its 2025 season 3 p.m. Sept. 3 against Elizabeth City State University at the Fairmont State Classic.

To stay up to date with all that happens at The Rock, follow our official Athletic Communication accounts on ‘X’ (formerly Twitter, @Rock_Athletics), Facebook (RockAthletics) and Instagram (RockAthletics).

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NCAA to consider allowing athletes, staff to bet on professional sports

The NCAA Division I Council will consider a proposal to allow athletes and staff to wager on professional sports, the organization announced Tuesday. Interestingly, the change would only go into effect if Division II and Division III also vote to lift their prohibitions on professional sports gambling, which will take place next month. All rules regarding […]

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The NCAA Division I Council will consider a proposal to allow athletes and staff to wager on professional sports, the organization announced Tuesday. Interestingly, the change would only go into effect if Division II and Division III also vote to lift their prohibitions on professional sports gambling, which will take place next month. All rules regarding betting on college sports will remain in place.

The reasons for this possible rules change are several, all of them interesting:

— There’s a general fatigue around enforcing gambling rules considering how wide-spread sports betting has become in American culture ever since the Supreme Court overturned the federal ban on sports wagering in 2018. Thirty-nine states now allow sports betting, and it’s become a common pastime among young people (more on this below), and generally there’s a feeling that the NCAA and its members are wasting their time prosecuting college golfers for putting $100 worth of action on a Monday Night Football game.

“NCAA rules prohibiting sports betting at all levels were written and adopted at a time when sports gambling was largely illegal nationwide,” NCAA DI Council chairman and Illinois AD Josh Whitman said.

— There’s also a feeling that punishing sports betting may actually be making a serious problem worse. As Pat Forde wrote for Sports Illustrated earlier this week:

Toward that end, campus athletic mental-health practitioners have been given more information to treat problem gambling in a manner similar to other addictive behaviors. The hope is that gambling addicts would be more willing to admit a wagering problem and seek help if they weren’t afraid of losing eligibility for betting on pro sports.

“One of the big things that’s not really being tracked is gambling as a mental-health issue,” one source says. “We should be helping people instead of whacking them with ineligibility.”

“Throughout our discussions, the council has remained focused on student-athlete wellness and educating student-athletes about the risks and potentially harmful impacts of betting,” Whitman said.

In September, Fairleigh Dickinson University published a survey that found 10 percent of young men exhibited behavior consistent with a gambling addiction, more than three times the national average. “By meeting student-athletes where they are, schools may be more effective at preventing, identifying and supporting student-athletes with problematic gambling behaviors. Regardless of the change, schools are encouraged to use the many sports betting resources already available,” NCAA chief medical officer Dr. Deena Casiero said.

— Unspoken by the NCAA, but money is also undoubtedly a factor. Every athletics department in the country is looking for new revenue streams right now, and the gambling industry has become an attractive option for many. Last week, Iowa State announced that Cyclone Sports Properties and its We Will Collective have reached a sponsorship agreement with Elite Casino Resorts. This is the same Iowa State (along with Iowa) that found itself in a major gambling scandal just two years ago. (Five current or former Cyclones football staffers collectively wagered more than $100,000 across 6,200 bets, and routinely wagered on Iowa State men’s and women’s basketball games — which would still be a violation of NCAA rules.)

Allowing their staff and players to bet on professional sports might make athletics departments feel less gross about taking a casino’s money.

— Sparked by the Iowa/Iowa State scandal, the NCAA reviewed its gambling policies and found they were more restrictive than other major sports organizations of similar stature.

— However, Forde reports that it’s not a guarantee that the ban will be lifted. Opponents have made the slippery-slope argument against lifting the prohibition, reasoning that normalizing betting on pro sports will make it more likely that staffers and athletes will then bet on college sports.

To that end, the NCAA has made it a major priority to lobby against allowing sports books to create prop bets around college athletes. In March, the NCAA touted that 18 states have banned athlete prop bets while launching its Don’t Be a Loser campaign in conjunction with the opening of the Division I basketball tournament.

NCAA president Charlie Baker says allowing prop bets risks the safety of both the athletes themselves and the integrity of the competitions. 

“Go sit behind the bench at one of these conference tournaments and listen to the bettors, yell and scream at these kids about their performance,” Baker said in March. “‘You need to do better. I’m losing money on you.’ Or the stuff that shows up online which we track in our tournaments, which is way more vicious and brutal than that. It’s really, this is a problem.”

So, one faction of the D1 Council is uncomfortable with of knocking down the wall between the NCAA and such a risky activity like gambling. 

“It’s been hotly debated,” one source told Forde. “This is not a slam dunk.”

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Amber Glenn discusses mental health journey on TODAY

Two-time U.S. figure skating champion Amber Glenn reflected on her mental health journey, starting with briefly stepping away from the sport in late 2015, in a TODAY interview that aired Tuesday. “I was in a very dark place,” Glenn said, referring to 2015 and noting she was diagnosed with anxiety, depression and an eating disorder. […]

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Two-time U.S. figure skating champion Amber Glenn reflected on her mental health journey, starting with briefly stepping away from the sport in late 2015, in a TODAY interview that aired Tuesday.

“I was in a very dark place,” Glenn said, referring to 2015 and noting she was diagnosed with anxiety, depression and an eating disorder. “One of my friends contacted one of my parents, and I sought help. I’m so grateful for that.”

Glenn turned 16 years old during that time. She reflected for months and did step back on the ice.

“I had no idea (if I would go back to figure skating),” Glenn told TODAY. “I knew that there was no way I could go back to the way I was doing things. And eventually I got to a place where I was doing things in a healthy way, and I could speak about my struggles.”

In March 2016, while still on a break from competition, Glenn attended the World Championships women’s free skate in Boston.

She watched as American Ashley Wagner performed brilliantly, moving up from fourth place after the short program to earn a silver medal.

It was part inspiring and also part discouraging. Glenn didn’t believe at the time that she could ever reach that level.

“Growing up, I saw the top skaters as untouchable and as these people who didn’t have the same struggles that I was having at that age,” she said. “Eventually, I got a peek behind the curtain, and they were struggling in silence. After seeing that, I realized that it was more important for me to be honest about my journey than to try and act like everything was perfect.”

Eight years after that time away, Glenn won her first senior U.S. title in 2024, then repeated as champion this past January.

She also won this past December’s Grand Prix Final, the second-most prestigious annual international event after the World Championships.

Glenn is bidding to make the three-woman team for the 2026 Milan Cortina Olympics, which will be decided by a committee after this upcoming January’s U.S. Championships.

At 26, she can become the oldest U.S. women’s singles skater to compete in an Olympics in 98 years.

“Part of me is still in disbelief,” Glenn told TODAY. “I need to trust that I put in the work to be here and that I do deserve it.”

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