Dear Annie: There’s a little boy in my son’s school — he’s 6 years old — who has a history of being very physical with other kids, including my son. They were in the same class previously, and my son would come home upset, sometimes with bruises, telling me this boy had hit or shoved […]
Dear Annie: There’s a little boy in my son’s school — he’s 6 years old — who has a history of being very physical with other kids, including my son. They were in the same class previously, and my son would come home upset, sometimes with bruises, telling me this boy had hit or shoved him during the day. Thankfully, they’re not in the same class anymore, but they’ve ended up on two different sports teams together in the past year. And the same thing keeps happening.
Just recently, my son came home after practice with a bruise on his back where this boy punched him. He wasn’t the only one. Other kids have been hurt, too — nothing life-threatening, but enough to cause pain, fear and frustration. What hurts me most is that the boy’s parents never apologize. The mom in particular seems to excuse or downplay the behavior, treating him like he’s too little to be held accountable, while other children are being hurt.
I feel protective and, frankly, angry. I want to advocate for my son, but I also don’t want to be that parent who makes waves or alienates another family. I’ve thought about just pulling my son off the team — but why should he have to lose out on something he enjoys because of another child’s behavior?
I keep wondering: what’s the right thing to do here? How do I protect my child while still trying to show compassion for another one who may be struggling? And is there a way to address this with the other parents or the coach without making it worse? — Concerned Mom
Dear Concerned: You’re right to be concerned — and your instincts are spot on.
No child should be expected to tolerate physical aggression, especially in a setting that’s supposed to be safe and fun. Sports are meant to build confidence and teamwork — not bruises and anxiety. The fact that this behavior is recurring across different environments tells me this is not an isolated issue, and it needs to be addressed head-on.
You don’t need to remove your son from the team. That would punish him for someone else’s behavior. Instead, speak directly with the coach or league organizer. Calmly explain what has happened and how it’s affected your child. Focus on safety — not blame. Ask what steps are in place to protect kids and what can be done moving forward.
As for the other parents, it’s unfortunate they haven’t stepped up. But their denial doesn’t mean you have to stay silent. If you feel comfortable, a direct but respectful conversation might help — but don’t count on it. Some parents need more growing up than their children.
At the age of 6, your son needs you as his advocate. Trust yourself. Protecting him is not overreacting; it’s good parenting.
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Logo of the World Aquatics. BEIJING, May 23 (Xinhua) — World Aquatics, the global governing body for swimming, has denounced the concept of the Enhanced Games and instead promoted a healthy and fulfilling sporting lifestyle, according to a statement sent to Xinhua on Wednesday. The Enhanced Games, which propose allowing athletes to use performance-enhancing substances […]
BEIJING, May 23 (Xinhua) — World Aquatics, the global governing body for swimming, has denounced the concept of the Enhanced Games and instead promoted a healthy and fulfilling sporting lifestyle, according to a statement sent to Xinhua on Wednesday.
The Enhanced Games, which propose allowing athletes to use performance-enhancing substances while competing in swimming, track and strength events, announced plans to hold their inaugural edition over Memorial Day weekend in Las Vegas in May 2026.
“The Enhanced Games are not a sporting competition built on universal values like honesty, fairness and equity: they are a circus, built on shortcuts,” World Aquatics said in the statement.
“The enduring power of athletes to serve as role models for children and adults alike relies on their talent, hard work, respect and friendship. That’s what we see in our champions and in our competitions, and that’s what we’ll continue to showcase.”
“The way to a long, healthy and happy sporting life is readily available. It doesn’t require a costly cocktail of anti-ageing drugs. Train consistently, eat well, rest well and enjoy the company of other athletes.”
“This is something we already know from the millions of masters swimmers who continue to regularly set new records for human performance at the World Aquatics Masters Championships, some aged over 100. We invite the world to come and learn from these true champions as they compete again in Singapore this summer,” World Aquatics said.
The World Aquatics Masters Championships will take place from July 26-August 22 in Singapore, with approximately 6,000 master-aged aquatics athletes from more than 100 countries and regions competing in swimming, diving, water polo, artistic swimming and open water swimming. ■
CINCINNATI – Trevor Nolan was named to the All-BIG EAST Team on Friday. The senior earns the honors for the second time in his career. The Brownsburg, Ind., native earned a bronze medal at the BIG EAST Championships on May 16, posting a time of 8:47.44 in the 3,000-meter steeplechase. He also earned a bronze medal in […]
The Brownsburg, Ind., native earned a bronze medal at the BIG EAST Championships on May 16, posting a time of 8:47.44 in the 3,000-meter steeplechase. He also earned a bronze medal in the event at the 2023 BIG EAST Championships.
Nolan qualified for the NCAA Track and Field East Prelims on May 28-31 in Jacksonville, Fla. The four-day meet is being hosted by the University of North Florida at Hodges Stadium. The 3,000-meter steeplechase is scheduled for Friday, May 30 at 5:40 PM.
Nolan ranks 18th in the NCAA East Region with a time of 8:42.25, recording the time on March 27 at the Raleigh Relays.
Gov. Mifflin defeated Central Dauphin in four sets in the District 3 Class 3A boys volleyball tournament on Thursday to advance to the semifinals. The Mustangs (18-0) won by set scores of 25-21, 18-25, 25-22, 25-21. Gov. Mifflin, the Berks County champion, hosts Central York at 7 p.m. Tuesday in a semifinal match. The other […]
Gov. Mifflin defeated Central Dauphin in four sets in the District 3 Class 3A boys volleyball tournament on Thursday to advance to the semifinals.
The Mustangs (18-0) won by set scores of 25-21, 18-25, 25-22, 25-21.
Gov. Mifflin, the Berks County champion, hosts Central York at 7 p.m. Tuesday in a semifinal match. The other semifinal is Northeastern at Cumberland Valley. The championship match is Thursday.
For the Mustangs, BCIAA player of the year Angel Bermudez had 33 assists, 3 blocks, 3 kills and 7 kills, Armani George had 8 kills and 4 blocks, and Carter Weyant had 7 kills, 1 block and 9 digs.
Also for the Mustangs, Derek Kintzer had 5 kills, 4 blocks and 4 digs, and Anderson Ross had 5 kills and 2 blocks.
In the 2A tournament on Thursday, Brandywine Heights (17-3) defeated New Covenant Christian 25-7, 25-16, 25-18 in the quarterfinals.
The Bullets will play the winner of today’s Berks Catholic-York Suburban match in the semifinals on Tuesday at the higher seed.
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Story Links Wabash College senior Will Neubauer advanced to the finals in the 800-meter run at the 2025 NCAA Division III Outdoor Track and Field Championships on Friday at the Spire Academy Stadium in Geneva, Ohio. Neubauer competed in the fastest of the three preliminary heats, crossing the line […]
Wabash College senior Will Neubauer advanced to the finals in the 800-meter run at the 2025 NCAA Division III Outdoor Track and Field Championships on Friday at the Spire Academy Stadium in Geneva, Ohio.
Neubauer competed in the fastest of the three preliminary heats, crossing the line in 1:51:30. Although he finished fourth in his heat, he also produced the fifth-fastest qualifying time in the field. Neubauer slotted behind Buena Vista’s Kyle Miller and Dickinson’s Trevor Richwine, who claimed the top two spots in the heat and overall qualifying times at 1:50.88 and 1:51.14, respectively. Pomona-Pitzer’s Oscar Roering ran 1:51.27 to secure third in the heat.
Emory’s Dawit Dean won in heat three in 1:51.26, while Wisconsin La Crosse’s Cael Schoemann won the first heat in 1:52.25.
The 800-meter final takes place at 2:50 p.m. on Saturday.
NEW BRITAIN — Six New Britain boys volleyball seniors were celebrated Thursday on Senior Night when the team hosted the Xavier Falcons in its regular-season finale. Despite a loss to the visiting Xavier Falcons, New Britain had a night of celebration as they recognized their senior class that includes Casper Adamus, Eric Aguilar, Liam Alape, […]
NEW BRITAIN — Six New Britain boys volleyball seniors were celebrated Thursday on Senior Night when the team hosted the Xavier Falcons in its regular-season finale.
Despite a loss to the visiting Xavier Falcons, New Britain had a night of celebration as they recognized their senior class that includes Casper Adamus, Eric Aguilar, Liam Alape, Werner Lynes, Jakub Pelka, and Joshua Ramales.
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