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With Lift Ticket Prices Exorbitantly High, the Ski Industry Needs to Rethink Its Priorities

Then, Reitzell explained that it’s his job to protect ski resorts, reiterating that costs have gone up for resorts due to rising costs of operation, as if this excuses the 546 percent appreciation of lift ticket prices in North America during the last four decades.  “The cost of running a ski resort has gone up […]

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With Lift Ticket Prices Exorbitantly High, the Ski Industry Needs to Rethink Its Priorities

With High Ticket Prices, Is It Skiers or the Ski Industry That Needs to Rethink Priorities?Then, Reitzell explained that it’s his job to protect ski resorts, reiterating that costs have gone up for resorts due to rising costs of operation, as if this excuses the 546 percent appreciation of lift ticket prices in North America during the last four decades.  “The cost of running a ski resort has gone up as resorts spend to maintain terrain and create compelling benefits for employees,” Reitzell said. But has it gone up 546 percent? Let me paraphrase Reitzell: the ski industry is not coming to save us. And, at least in the near future, the ski industry is not going to become more affordable. 

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To gain insight into the ski industry pricing out everyday consumers, I spoke to the head of the National Ski Areas Association, Mike Reitzell. Surprisingly, Reitzell more or less repeated what Donner Ski Ranch announced to its online audience, saying, “lift ticket and season pass pricing varies greatly by region and ski area size. Typically, the lowest-priced lift tickets can be found at small ski areas.” In other words, the NSAA excuses the high prices of larger ski resorts. 
While Donner Ski Ranch and the many people in the comment section are justified in their opposition to large resorts, which come with exorbitant lift ticket prices that have only skyrocketed in recent years, I would argue that the issue stems from the ski industry itself as opposed to the individual consumer. While it’s true that skiing at smaller mountains is more affordable, skiers shouldn’t be forced to pay insane amounts of money to access challenging terrain in the first place. Specifically, weekend warriors, middle-class skiers, and families who live in neighboring cities should be able to ski Palisades Tahoe without breaking the bank. Is this a radical statement? Or just common sense? 
Only per run. Photo: Jeffrey Brandjes
The real challenge here presents itself for the middle ground (and the vast majority) of skiers and riders frequenting resorts. The demographic who is most affected by the rising prices, and the ski industry’s inability to address them, are those who work full-time jobs, may not have enough money to invest in a brand-new backcountry skiing or riding setup, or may not have the time to go touring instead of riding the lifts.
I’ll add that the invention of the mega pass has changed skiing as we know it. Until mega passes came into the picture, skiers and riders picked their closest mountain, spent a couple hundred bucks on a season pass, and that was that. Now, skiers and riders must choose between spending a couple hundred bucks per day or spending a thousand dollars if they’re going to ski more than five days. I’m not bringing this up to criticize mega passes or the consumers who decide to purchase them (can you blame anyone?), but to illustrate how the ski industry has changed dramatically over the past few decades. 
Corporations, besides being “lame-o” or whatever the Facebook commenter said, play a notable part in this conversation. Corporations tend to homogenize resorts, so skiing’s base lodges, chairs, and even maps begin to feel one in the same. Corporations are behind mega passes such as Epic and Ikon. 
In fairness, one of the obvious opposition arguments – that I’ll address – is that consumers do have a choice to opt into resort skiing in the first place. Backcountry skiing is an option for those unwilling to pay large resort prices. Plus, backcountry skiing certainly has its advantages: it offers more freedom, more connection with nature, and more pristine powder. 
All in all, the real issue here is the ski industry’s unwillingness to address its high prices. With lift tickets for big-name resorts in the hundreds (up to 0 on peak days), paid parking systems, resort dining options, and equipment rentals, a single weekend of skiing can quickly add up to thousands of dollars for individuals and families who don’t live in a mountain town or own their own gear. In other words: anyone who’s not rich or willing to make their entire life revolve around skiing is barred from enjoying the mountains.
So, what’s next? It seems unlikely that prices will decrease in the next few years without some kind of mass consumer strike or protest. So, what are skiers and riders to do? It’s a tough question, and it depends on who’s asking. Beginners and families looking for the skiing experience but are willing to sacrifice challenging terrain (because you don’t need couloirs and cliffs to learn how to link turns) can go to smaller, independently operated resorts. Individuals who are extremely invested in skiing and want to challenge themselves may opt to go off-piste, take avalanche safety courses, and build their network of fellow backcountry skiers and riders.
The family-owned, Lake Tahoe-area resort Donner Ski Ranch recently threw shade at Palisades Tahoe with a Facebook photo of its nonexistent lift line on a “busy day at 11:30 a.m.,” writing that “if you are paying 0 for a lift ticket, plus parking, to be stuck in terrible traffic then stand in long lift lines, you might want to rethink your priorities.” 
Mega passes have their advantages: skiing across the country is possible for those who have the time and already own the pass. Instead of spending 0 to purchase your home resort’s season pass, you can spend a little more and gain access to a slew of other mountains. But again, for everyday, middle-class consumers, is this really useful, or is this simply a ploy to push people to buy the more expensive option that they’ll never reap the full benefits of? With blackout dates on the base passes, there becomes even more pressure to spend more and more money until it’s no longer any sort of “steal.” 
Facebook users commented in agreement, saying things like, “Love the small resorts. Forget the corporations,” “Don’t forget to support a local mountain and not a lame Corpo mountain,” and “there are never lift lines there, I love that.” For comparison, Palisades Tahoe currently charges between 8 and 9 for a single-day lift ticket, with prices varying depending on the day of the week. (The weekend is more, and weekdays are less.) And that’s pretty much become the standard at large resorts across the country. 
However, backcountry skiing shouldn’t be treated as a viable option for everyone. Avalanche safety courses and equipment are a must (and they come with a high price tag). Plus, it’s unsafe to backcountry ski alone and in certain conditions. Backcountry skiing requires a lot more investment, time, and expertise than resort skiing, making it potentially more expensive and even more difficult for everyday consumers to break into. 
It is clear change is needed in the ski industry. I’m not opposed to mega-passes, and I’m not opposed to big-name resorts. But at the end of the day, it may be corporations driving the ski industry, and not skiers and riders, who need to rethink their priorities. When skiing risks pricing out many of its consumers by implementing prices and systems that simply aren’t conducive to the everyday rider, the industry can, and will, face the consequences. And if resorts continue to alienate those customers, the sense of community so cherished in snowsports will be dead – not to mention, there won’t be any skiers left to purchase the 0 day passes. 

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Steffen secures steeplechase league title for Dutch women

Story Links INDIANOLA — Central College women’s track and field junior Peyton Steffen (junior, Marion) outpaced the women’s 3,000-meter steeplechase field Friday to give the Central College women’s track & field team its only individual title so far at the American Rivers Conference Championships.The Dutch women are in fourth with […]

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INDIANOLA — Central College women’s track and field junior Peyton Steffen (junior, Marion) outpaced the women’s 3,000-meter steeplechase field Friday to give the Central College women’s track & field team its only individual title so far at the American Rivers Conference Championships.
The Dutch women are in fourth with 39 points through eight events.
Steffen won the steeplechase n 10 minutes, 33.21 seconds.
“Anytime you can hit a lifetime best at a conference meet it’s pretty impressive,” coach Brandon Sturman said. “It was exciting to see her feel as comfortable as she was. She’s got more big events tomorrow and hopefully this set her up for a special day.”
In the 4×800-meter relay, Peyton Madison (freshman, Eldridge, North Scott HS), Teah Miller (sophomore, Iowa Falls, Iowa Falls-Alden HS), Riley Packer (junior, Erie, Ill.) and Alivia Roerdink (sophomore, Tiffin, Ohio, Hopewell-Loudon HS) took second place in 11:44.19. Emma Rocha (senior, Franklin, Wis.) also earned all-conference honors after finishing third in 38:57.22 during the 10,000 meters.
“I’m super excited Emma was able to get on the podium in her first 10K of the year,” Sturman said. “I was really proud of her and it’s exciting for her to do it in her senior year.”
High jumpers Abigail White (senior, Centerville) and Ramey Dahlquist (freshman, Janesville, Waverly-Shell Rock HS) were fourth and seventh, respectively, after both cleared 5-1. White won the tie breaker based on fewer misses. Long jumpers Olivia Bolen (junior, Belle Plaine) and Karlee Warnke (sophomore, Primghar, South O’Brien HS) were sixth (17-6.25) and eighth (17-0.75), respectively. Sage Austin (sophomore, Carlisle) took sixth in the heptathlon with 3,563 points.
The final day of competition from the league championships start with field events at 10 a.m. running events begin at 1:30 p.m.
 
 
Top-eight finishes
10,000 meters – 3. Emma Rocha, 38:57.22; 10. Kira Hooper, 42:00.28
3000-meter steeplechase – 1. Peyton Steffen, 10:33.21; 8. Teah Miller, 11:44.19
4×800 relay – 2. Peyton Madison, Teah Miller, Riley Packer, Alivia Roerdink, 9:28.64
High jump – 4. Abigail White, 5-1; 7. Ramey Dahlquist, 5-1
Long jump – 6. Olivia Bohlen, 17-6.25; 8. Karlee Warnke, 17-0.75
Heptathlon – 6. Sage Austin, 3,563 points
 
Qualified for Saturday’s finals
100-meter dash (prelims) – 5. Mary Gustason, 12.40
200 meters (prelims) – 4. Emily McMartin, 24.77; 8. Ava Parkins, 25.51
400 meters (prelims) – 3. Emily McMartin, 56.77; 5. Ava Parkins, 57.88
800 meters (prelims) – 3. Alivia Roerdink, 2:15.04
100-meter hurdles (prelims) – 2. Olivia Bohlen, 14.83
 



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“I can’t wait to be at HaBaWaBa”Waterpolo Development World

Many waterpolo stars have passed through HaBaWaBa over the years, but few can boast the palmares of Branislav Mitrovic, former goalkeeper and two-time Olympic champion with Serbia, in Rio de Janeiro 2016 and Tokyo 2020, and also winner of one World Championships gold medal and four editions of European Championships. Having retired last year, Mitrovic […]

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Many waterpolo stars have passed through HaBaWaBa over the years, but few can boast the palmares of Branislav Mitrovic, former goalkeeper and two-time Olympic champion with Serbia, in Rio de Janeiro 2016 and Tokyo 2020, and also winner of one World Championships gold medal and four editions of European Championships. Having retired last year, Mitrovic is now part of the coaching staff of Vasas, the prestigious club from Budapest that has been taking part in the Lignano Sabbiadoro event for years: Mitrovic will coach the U13 formation of the Hungarian club, which is taking part in HaBaWaBa International Festival PLUS 2025 starting on June 22nd.  

Mr. Mitrovic, why did Vasas choose to come to HaBaWaBa?

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Branislav Mitrovic playing for Serbia: he won 2 Olympics, 1 WC, 4 EC, 6 World League, 1 University Games and 1 Mediterranean Games (ph. European Aquatics).

I heard a lot about HaBaWaBa before, this tournament is very popular, and as a coach I made some research, discovering that is a very good tournament, with a lot of teams and kids. One of the coach of our club is Ildiko Sedlmayer, who has an old relationship with HaBaWaBa, and she asked me if I wanted to participate in the event and I had no doubt. After, she told me a little be more and now I’m very excited, I look forward to go there: I call HaBaWaBa the waterpolo world fair, with a lot of kids in one place, plenty of games, and the chance to meet other team, coaches and cultures.

The importance of involving kids in waterpolo is the concept behind HaBaWaBa: do you share the same idea?

Yes, I am. It’s very important because kids are genuine, they play with their hearts and give them free time to play with the ball in the water is a very good idea to make them know waterpolo.  

What do you think about HaBaWaBa rules?

I’ve studied a little bit, for me they are ok: we can see that they’re trying to reach the same goal in senior waterpolo. I thing that we need to make waterpolo more interesting for kids. When my children play football, they can score every time. We need to manage that for kids playing waterpolo, to have the same feeling, to have fun playing. And also, on the other side, these rules help to develop basics of the game, swimming and legs.  

Let’s talk about you: how did you fall in love with waterpolo? 

Nothing Like Habawaba-05-05 taglio okI was in 3rd grade and some of my friends pushed me to try a sport in the water along with them. After 3 days of training the coach put me in the cage as goalkeeper: I never knew why, maybe because he saw my height and the size of my hands. You know, waterpolo could be not nice at the beginning: the water is cold and the game is tough. So playing with my friends and having a good environment in Novi Sad, at Vojvodina, were very important for me. Waterpolo is playing together: if I’m still in waterpolo is because it’s a collective sport, that is much better than individual sport. In team sport you don’t train just for your goal, you are not alone, you fight, cry and cheer with your friends. And I had great teammates: I played with Nikola Radjen and Dusko Pijetlovic since we were kids. 

To be a goalkeeper is a very hard job: have you any suggestion for little HaBaWaBa goalies? 

Just have fun. And make it personal: “You’re not going to score a gol against me!”, that’s the thought they should think in the cage.  

Will you coach the kids in Lignano Sabbiadoro?

That will be a very good experience for me as well as for the kids. They’re going to travel abroad without parents and that’s important because nowadays kids are often too attached to parents. It will be good for kids to be a little bit away from them, to see other place and other athletes in the village, as it happens at the Olympics or University Games, feeling just the competition. And it applies also to me: also adults need to explore.

Before you, other famous waterpolo goalies came to HaBaWaBa, as Stefano Tempesti, who announced his retire at the end of the season. Can you tell me which are the best goalkeepers you’ve seen in your life?

During his career, Mitrovic played for Vojvodina, Partizan, Ferencvaros, Debrecen, Eger, OSC and Vasas (ph. European Aquatics).

During his career, Mitrovic played for Vojvodina, Partizan, Ferencvaros, Debrecen, Eger, OSC and Vasas (ph. European Aquatics).

As first I say Jesus Rollan, one of the greatest person and goalkeeper in waterpolo: he made Spain so good at that time. Then Denis Sefik, who was born to be the king. And now I like Some Vogel, he had a very big impact in Ferencvaros and Hungary national team. 

What about the new generation goalies? Who do you like?

Croatian Mauro Ivan Cubranic could be one very good goalkeeper at international level.

You were part of the gold generation of Serbia, who won 2 Olympics. After Tokyo 2020 most of you left the national team, however Serbia triumphed again in Paris 2024, against all odds. Will they win also the next Singapore 2025 World Championships? 

In Serbia we have a very good organization about coaching and this is why we keep winning so many medals. The players of the “new” Serbia were good prepared, they didn’t win the third gold olympic medal accidentally. After Tokyo Serbia needed few years to get that level we have before. In the next 4 years the team is going to change less players, has already started a new cycle ahead of other national teams and will play 4 years more with these players. I’m sure Serbia will reach the top 4 in Singapore. 

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Story Links BOZEMAN, Mont. — In their lone opportunity this outdoor season to compete at their home facility, the Montana State track and field team made it count while benefitting from beautiful weather as they took to Bobcat Track & Field Complex on Friday for the Tom Gage Classic.  The […]

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BOZEMAN, Mont. — In their lone opportunity this outdoor season to compete at their home facility, the Montana State track and field team made it count while benefitting from beautiful weather as they took to Bobcat Track & Field Complex on Friday for the Tom Gage Classic. 

The 2025 regular season finale was highlighted by a school record from Harvey Cramb in the 800 meters, plus more all-time top-ten marks across the distance, jumps, and throws groups. 

Facing off with in-state competitors from Montana, Montana Tech, and Rocky Mountain College, Montana State made strides to ready themselves ahead of next week’s 2025 Big Sky Outdoor Track & Field Championships in Sacramento, California. 

“There were a lot of good things,” head coach Lyle Weese said. “Obviously we had not as many of our sprinters compete today since they’re resting up for next week, and the jumpers were maybe a little bit of a mix. With the distance and the throws, I thought we went out there and competed well and I thought we showed mostly in all areas great consistency, which is always good heading into a championship meet that you can replicate marks regardless of the meet or the location—the consistency was awesome.” 

Leading the day was the 800 meter race from Australian sophomore Harvey Cramb, who broke his own school record from a year ago with an altitude-converted time of 1:47.22. 

The mark shaved a second off his previous-best from this time last year, and gives the 2025 NCAA indoor All-American in the mile the No. 27 mark in the nation in the 800. Cramb also ranks No. 21 in the country this season in the 1,500 meters. 

“Harvey’s race was so impressive because he led from start to finish and got out really hard,” Weese said. “He doesn’t race the 800 all that often, so it’s not something he’s super used to. Especially getting out that hard I think made it a very challenging situation for him but he hung on and ran a really fast time.” 

In the men’s 1,500 meters, the Bobcats executed their gameplan of getting junior Sam Ells qualified for the NCAA West First Rounds.

With three-time All-American Rob McManus setting the pace through the first two-plus laps, Ells crossed the line in an eye-popping, altitude-converted time of 3:38.19, the third-fastest time in school history behind only Duncan Hamilton (2023) and Harvey Cramb (2025). 

“Sam’s kind of on the edge for Regionals in the 5,000 meters,” Weese said, “So we wanted to take today and make sure it was a focus of our distance team to make sure that he is in for sure in the 1,500 meters so that he doesn’t have to worry about it. It was nice to get that regional mark taken care of for Sam so that he can just go and race at conference and not worry about times.” 

The top-48 marks in both the West and East Regions advance to the NCAA First Rounds, and Ells did more than enough to punch his ticket to College Station in late May. Friday’s race puts him at No. 31 nationally and No. 15 in the West Region. 

In the women’s 1,500 meters, sophomore Eva Koos continued her breakout season with an electric race that catapulted her into second place all-time in Montana State history. 

The Wisconsin native crossed the line in an altitude-converted time of 4:22.84, behind only teammate Kyla Christopher-Moody in the race who set the school record in March. 

In fact, Koos’ time just would have narrowly been the school record itself by four one-hundredths of a second had Christopher-Moody not set it, edging out Holly Stanish from 1988 (4:22.88). 

In the women’s 800 meters, the Bobcats got a big race from sophomore Annie Kaul

The native of Plentywood, Montana, won handily in an altitude-converted time of 2:09.01, now the third-fastest time in school history after narrowly surpassing her teammate, Jada Zorn, who finished second on Friday in Bozeman. 

Kaul’s race is the fastest by a Bobcat woman since Christie Schiel set the school record in 2017 (2:06.87). 

Over in the pole vault pit, freshman vaulter Megan Bell continued her late-season surge with huge clearance of 13-08.25 to win on Friday. 

Bell, a native of Ann Arbor, Michigan, went up and over on her third attempt, pushing her to No. 3 all-time in school history behind only two-time national champion Elouise Rudy (2007) and Maisee Brown (2024). 

Libby Hansen, a junior from Helena, Montana, also cleared a personal-best bar on her home track, getting over 13-02.25 to move up to eighth all-time at Montana State. 

Montana State will take three of the eight best pole vaulters in school history to the conference meet next week, with all three ranking in the top-six in the Big Sky this season (Richards, Bell, Hansen). 

Elsewhere, Taylor Brisendine capped an emotional day with a new personal-best in the triple jump that added on to what was already the third-best mark in school history. 

After walking the stage at graduation in Brick Breeden Fieldhouse in the morning, the native of Kalispell headed to the track and won the triple jump with a leap of 40-08.25–now the second-best mark in the Big Sky this year. 

Brisendine was one of 15 seniors recognized as part of Senior Day festivities following the meet. 

“It’s always a happy day and also a sad day,” Weese said. “We are graduating some people that have contributed so much to our team over the years and have been such an integral part of our team. It is great to see them moving on to the next stage of their life, finishing up graduating and moving on, but we’ll sure miss them here.” 

THE RUNDOWN 

  • Easton Hatleberg and Talon Holmquist put on a show in the men’s shot put to finish 1-2. Hatleberg recorded a personal-best of 58-02 to improve on his No. 9 all-time mark in school history, with Holmquist not far behind with a personal-best throw of 57-08.25 

  • Destiny Nkeonye won the men’s long jump with a leap of 24-02.25, just three inches off his No. 3 all-time MSU mark. Nkeonye also won the men’s triple jump, with teammate Mathias Mees taking second. 

  • Bob Hartley, redshirting this outdoor season, won the men’s pole vault on number of misses over teammate Colby Wilson. Both cleared a bar at 17-04.25 

  • Sydney Brewster, the Big Sky Conference record-holder and three-time defending Big Sky Women’s Field Athlete of the Week, won the shot put with a throw of 53-01.75. Teammate Emma Brensdal finished second. 

UP NEXT 

Montana State travels to Sacramento, California, for the 2025 Big Sky Outdoor Track & Field Championships, hosted by Sacramento State at Hornet Stadium beginning Wednesday, May 14, and continuing through Saturday, May 17. 

The Montana State men are the defending Big Sky outdoor champions, while Montana State’s women have finished runner-up at five consecutive conference championship meets. 

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The life-changing magic of Gen X moms who don’t give a damn

The last time Krista Johnston played water polo she was 10 years old in swimming lessons. Forty years later, looking for a workouonscreensn’t aquafit, she signed up for a Friday morning water polo drop-in at her local Kelowna, B.C., pool, expecting, at that hour, to swim with other people roughly her own age. Instead, she […]

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The last time Krista Johnston played water polo she was 10 years old in swimming lessons. Forty years later, looking for a workouonscreensn’t aquafit, she signed up for a Friday morning water polo drop-in at her local Kelowna, B.C., pool, expecting, at that hour, to swim with other people roughly her own age. Instead, she stood poolside on the first day in her teal one-piece with tummy control, the only one with a float belt, watching super-fit, much younger swimmers expertly slinging the ball around. To flee or not to flee?

The dialogue in her head went something like this: Why am I embarrassed? Because I’m 50? Good for me. Because I have a little more around the middle? Well, I’ve had two kids. And then more loudly, insistently, this thought: I deserve to be here.

The women of Gen X (my friends and I included) share her defiance, as they arrive at middle age, their careers established, their families launched, or nearly so.

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Krista Johnston started playing water polo again at 50.Kathleen Fisher/The Globe and Mail

Our generation, now age 45 to 60, has officially hit the years of colonoscopies and mammograms. And we all know how it’s supposed to go. At the half-century mark, men get a power upgrade and become silver foxes. Women get turkey necks and bingo wings and become irrelevant, invisible and no longer you-know-what-able.

Gen X is having none of it. The mothers I spoke with for this story are starting businesses, taking up skateboarding, travelling with their adult children, dreaming up their next steps.

They are focused on personal agency and joy. They dropped more F-bombs than any batch of interviews I’ve done for a story. They’ve probably danced past midnight more recently than many twentysomethings.

The last thing they are is invisible or irrelevant. “Society wants to put us out to pasture,” says Ms. Johnston. “We’re not accepting that.”

Middle-aged motherhood has been long overdue for a female-friendly reboot, ideally a fearsome, liberated remake that stomps the crap out of what Ms. Johnston calls that “age-shaming baloney.”

This power move is already happening in Hollywood. Gen X directors and actors such as Nicole Kidman and Cate Blanchett are producing on-screen storylines where middle-aged moms have hot sex with besotted younger men, or team up to mastermind heists and criminal cover-ups.

Add to the movement Michelle Obama, who at 61 gets honorary Gen X status. When her absence from public events prompted rumours of a marriage breakup, the former first lady explained on a podcast in April, “I chose to do what was best for me, not what I had to do, not what I thought other people wanted me to do.”

Even Stacy London, who for years dictated fashion advice on her makeover TV show What Not to Wear, has now hit middle age and menopause with second thoughts about her previously critical assessments of women as frumpy and too flashy. She’s just launched a cleverly marketed mea culpa: a new TV show called Wear Whatever the F You Want.

Points for the pithy title, although this doesn’t make up for “No miniskirts after 35.” Also, quick question: If we’re wearing whatever we want, do we still need instructions?

Because telling Gen X what to do is not going to fly. Based on the conversations I had for this story, the Big Change fuelling all this ferocity is not hormones and empty nests and culture wars and grey hair. It’s the unsung superpower of middle-aged womanhood: You stop giving a damn.

In Langley, B.C., Darla Halyk, 52, has zero damns left to give. (The actual expression she used was much more on brand.) “I’m not the girl walking down the street concerned about what anybody thinks any more.” she says. “I speak my mind clearly if someone says something I disagree with and I don’t fear the repercussions of making them uncomfortable.”

And so, you won’t be surprised to hear that at the pool that day, Ms. Johnston decided no one would put her in a corner. She climbed down the ladder, while everyone else dove in, and chased the ball until she thought her lungs felt like they would explode. “I didn’t want to strut out there, you know, like, ‘I’m ready,’” she says, “But I had to.”

Had to, Ms. Johnston says, because she remembers the way her mom spoke wistfully about missed adventures, and then died at 65, before she felt free enough to do them. Because Ms. Johnston wants to set a more empowered example for her own kids, and for the younger mothers trying to break the rules behind her.

Because why did we all work so freakin’ hard just to slink away from life now?


This expletive-laced remaking of middle age was probably inevitable. What else would you expect from a generation that leans hard on sarcasm and surliness, chafes at dumb rules and knows the world is, sigh, unjust.

And who better to lead this modern new middle-aged motherhood franchise than Generation X, my small yet feisty cohort that has always punched above its weight?

We were the first large group of grade-schoolers who went home to empty houses, and the last teenagers to get up to no good without social-media surveillance. The first female generation to surpass our male peers in educational attainment. (Although we still earned less than them.) The first mothers to get one-year maternity leave, and the second sandwich generation, caring simultaneously for still-growing children and fast-aging parents.

We saw the Tiananmen Square student massacre and the fall of the Berlin Wall happen six months apart, and watched 22-year-old Monica Lewinsky get the blame for the blue dress, so we learned early that borders change and tyrants rise, and that Pity Him would come after #MeToo.

But we also raised our sons to hopefully understand consent in a way our own dates sometimes didn’t. We warned our daughters not to take abortion rights for granted. And we took them both to the therapy we never got.


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‘The fact that like we’re not looking like the Golden Girls any more is good, but it’s also bad. Because now we have Jennifer Aniston at 50,’ Ms. Halyk says.FELICIA CHANG/The Globe and Mail

We perfected motherhood hacks well before TikTok glamourized them. One mom I know simmered Bulls-Eye Barbecue Sauce on the stove for years to home-cooking acclaim. (In case you’re interested, she also cleverly stocks her car with the gum flavour nobody in her family likes so she’s never disappointed by an empty pack.)

Doing it all still broke many of us early. But there was a silver lining. At daycare, the kids with mismatched socks and single mittens were friendship beacons for frazzled moms barely holding it together and the resulting wine-soaked girls’ nights were training for seizing our own identities in mid-life.

But this isn’t a fairy tale: Getting old also sucks. You ache in new places. Your girlfriends get cancer. Marriages unravel. Parents die. The kids leave. Illness derails your plans.

And more than you like to admit, you grieve for your prettier self.

“I didn’t think I would feel so sad about getting old,” says Ms. Halyk. “I didn’t think I was that vain. I have never been a high-fashion, wear-a-lot-of-makeup lady.” She hates that “a little bit of grey hair” makes her feel insecure. Some days, she catches her eyes in the mirror, unprepared for the reflection. “Like two days ago, I looked 10 years younger.”

Having hit middle age with independence and financial means, and still just enough insecurity, Gen X women have become a lucrative demographic. Menopause has gone mainstream, selling books and lux lubricants. From a new company started by Gen X actor Naomi Watts, there’s the Vag of Honor intimate moisture gel and the Oh My Glide play oil, a top seller, according to the website. Unfortunately, much like easy access to consistent medical care for a health issue guaranteed to affect half the population, neither are available in Canada.

Meanwhile, according to social media, a middle-aged woman’s wish list is reduced to miracle winkle cream, wall Pilates, incontinence underwear and pelvic floor therapy. That last one would feel like progress, if it wasn’t immediately followed by an ad of a plastic surgeon drawing on a woman’s face to mark the parts he would fix. (Only the neck, chin, cheeks, eyes, nose and forehead.)

“Pretending that it doesn’t ever bother us that our necks are getting saggy isn’t helpful,” says Krista O‘Reilly-Davi-Digui, a 53-year-old mom and wellness coach in Edson, Alta., who leads an online mentoring community for middle-aged women. At the same time, “If you stop spending 80 per cent of your waking hours hating your body, trying to change our body, trying to find clothes to make your body look a different way, you’ve got a lot of space now to do your creative work.”

Life also has a way of minimizing the smaller problems – and clarifying our priorities -by burdening us with larger loss.

Ms. Halyk, for example, abandoned her writing career after receiving death threats for telling a story about a sexual assault she experienced as a young woman. “You know, we all go through stuff,” she says. “You go though it, and you heal.”

Ms. O‘Reilly-Davi-Digui lost her 23-year-old son to suicide in 2019. In therapy, she worked hard on self-compassion, and how to carry a terrible grief that will be with her forever. “It was not a pretty journey,” she says. Feeling joy again was difficult and emotional work. She moved through it with the help of professional mental health care and women who gave her space to be honest – the kind of collective embrace, she says, we need to foster more in society.

Oorbee Roy, a Toronto mom who took up skateboarding in her 40s and is now known around the internet as Aunty Skates, has an inherited condition that means she could have a heart attack at any time. “I’m hyper aware of the fact that these are good years,“ and she refuses to waste them.

Early this year, Ms. Roy, 50, announced to her husband she would not be folding the laundry any more. “And he’s like, ‘But that‘s adulting,’” she recalls. She stood her ground: The clothes come out of the dryer, get dumped in a basket and she doesn’t care. “I don’t want to do all this mundane stuff any more.” Two weeks ago, however, she came home from visiting her mother, and her folded clothes had also been put away. “That,” she says, “was like foreplay.”

A laundry strike may not be world-changing, but Ms. O‘Reilly-Davi-Digui sees this middle-aged tension as our true selves saying, “Stop. No more devaluing myself, no more putting myself last, no more performing.“

This “reimagining of how we move through the world” can be messy, she says. Sometimes “you need to scream and get that rage out of your body.” (Insert F-bomb where appropriate.)


When I asked Gen X women for their best sources of perspective and meaning, they looked in two directions – their parents aging ahead of them, and their kids coming up behind. “I think we’re very lucky to be Gen X,” Ms. Halyk told me. “We’ve gotten to see history and the future, and really live in the line between them.”

From that vantage point, you see what it‘s like to get older, for better and worse. Maybe you start lifting weights, not so much to lose weight, but to dodge your mom‘s knee surgery at 70. Or you invest in friends who will remind you of past adventures when your memory fades like your father‘s.

With your kids, there’s common music and culture – a shortcut to closeness. You’ve likely been getting IT support from them for years already – why stop listening now?

Gen X moms are quick to say yes – to concerts with their kids, or pub nights with their millennial co-workers. When Ms. Halyk‘s daughter wanted to go with her to Disneyland for her 21st birthday, she made it happen, and even went on her most terrifying ride, the Ferris wheel. At work, younger colleagues have taught Ms. Johnston about bubble tea and the shows they liked, and energized her natural curiosity. “Sometimes, I would forget that I was more than twice their age.” And at water polo, the players were generous and welcoming; she was soon joining them for post-scrimmage conversation in the hot tub.

Ms. O‘Reilly-Davi-Digui says her daughters, both in their 20s, are a primary motivator for how she chooses to live. “I want something better for them, or at least, I want to model a brave way of being in the world.”

For Ms. Johnston, a more empathetic understanding of her mother also looms large in her decisions today. She sees now that her mom was forced to be the serious parent because of her fun-loving father, yet always pushed her daughters to be independent and adventurous. At 58, her mom went back to school, to upgrade her skills, an act of bravery her then 28-year-old daughter didn’t fully appreciate. And Ms. Johnston now clearly recognizes a yearning for what might have been, when her mom listened to accounts of her children’s travels.

She thinks of this when she sticks with water polo, when she proposes renting out the house and working on a sheep farm in Scotland, and realizes she would go, in a heartbeat, except her husband isn’t keen, and she still feels selfish spending money to chase her own desires.

“I’m not as brave as I think I am, or want to be,” Ms. Johnston says. And yet, this is now or never time. “Do I take a chance? Do you go out on a limb? Do I want to just be accepting things that I’m not okay with until I die?”

Her fear is that she’ll get to her mom‘s age, with the same regrets. “That definitely lights a huge fire under me.” Her mother‘s story also reminds her how abruptly that fire can go out. “I’ve survived. I’ve seen. I’ve done,” she says. “I’m lucky I’m here.”


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‘I think Gen Xers we’re a little bit reckless. We kind of fly under the radar anyway. So why not do whatever we wanna do?’ Ms. Roy says.Jess Deeks/The Globe and Mail

Every Halloween, Ms. Roy and husband host a rager in their home. They hire two bartenders, and glow-in the dark Jello syringes are the custom cocktail. They invite all the neighbours so no one calls the police. There’s dancing and karaoke, until the guests are sent home at 2 a.m. A couple of years ago, a younger mom in attendance found Ms. Roy, then dressed as the creepy, crooked-necked ghost from The Haunting of Hill House, and thanked her, proving it‘s possible to still have fun as an adult.

And yet, for years Ms. Roy sat on the sidelines, while her husband and children whizzed around the skateboard park, talking herself out of having fun by joining them. She told herself: “I won’t be very good. It‘s too late for me. I’m going to hurt myself. People will laugh at me.”

And then, at 43, she decided she wanted to be a participant in, not a witness to, her family’s life. The joy she felt from that first clumsy ride was unexpected. She thought, “I want more of this in my life,” And life, she realized, was a lot like skateboarding – you fall a lot, you think about what you did wrong, you go again. If you’re lucky, you eventually land the trick. “But it‘s really about the journey.”

Ms. Halyk, who handles accounts for a tax services company, is currently launching her own business, Pawsh Trail Co., a pet product line designed to help woman walk and care more easily for their large dogs

“I just see myself in my power, more than ever,” Ms. Halyk says. “You’re not strapped to the toddler or even the soccer practices. You have more you.”

More room, for “what next?” as Ms.O‘Reilly-Davi-Digui likes to say.

On that front, Ms. Roy is starting an Aunty Skates podcast. Ms. Halyk dreams of buying an acreage with her kids, and raising chickens and canning her own tomatoes. Ms. Johnston injured her rotator cuff during water-polo drills; she plans to return in September, but has joined a competitive dragon boat team in the meantime.

All this example-setting and boundary-moving, personal and public, is important: Middle age can be a grim and lonely place, the time of life with the highest suicide rates for women.

That‘s why women need to come together and share, says Ms. O‘Reilly-Davi-Digui, for their own benefit, but also so that their example trickles down. She notes that her 25-year-old daughter is following hormone specialists and pelvic floor therapists on Instagram. Her middle age has already shifted, just like Gen X evolved from the activism of their mothers’ generation.

“The more that we all practise a new way of being, we’re just sort of pinging off each other,” says Ms. O‘Reilly-Davi-Digui. “We’re creating a new cultural narrative.

We might wonder why we waited so long. Considering her own reasons, Michelle Obama suggested that women too often worry about disappointing people. “I could have made a lot of these decisions years ago, but I didn’t give myself that freedom.”

Giving yourself the freedom to choose is but one lesson of Gen X aging that‘s also a lifelong happiness practice. Among the others: Mind the hour, and be grateful for the day; learn from the people you value, young and old; be bold and brave and silly as often as you can.

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Ms. Roy with her kids Rohan, 12, and Avnee, 15, took up skateboarding when she was 43.Jess Deeks/The Globe and Mail

And then there’s this one, from which all of those others flow:

On a recent evening, I stood in a kitchen with a group of Gen X women. One mom, an accountant, described once begging the local baker to make three lasagnas in her own casserole dishes so she could pass them off as home made at the school bake sale – prompting laughter, à la “we’ve all been there.”

But in the pause that followed, a second mom, who had stayed home with her kids and whose talents I have long admired, quietly spoke up: She’d also felt judged, by the working-outside-the home moms, for bringing in the lasagna she supposedly “had so much free time” to cook herself. The moment landed hard: Mothers, of every age, get enough blame for being too warm, too cold, too absent, too present. Why do we add to it?

“We are all feeling the same way, and have come through so much,” says Ms. Halyk. “We need to be gracious with each other and ourselves.” If Gen X, while rebranding middle-aged motherhood, passes down any lesson, may it be this one.





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Moni Nikolov Named 2025 AVCA National Collegiate Player Of The Year

COLUMBUS, Ohio – Adding to a historic freshman season, Long Beach State’s Moni Nikolov was named 2025 AVCA National Collegiate Player of the Year. The American Volleyball Coaches Association (AVCA) made the announcement on Friday evening at the NCAA Championship Social. Nikolov joins his older brother Alex Nikolov as just the second player in AVCA […]

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COLUMBUS, Ohio – Adding to a historic freshman season, Long Beach State’s Moni Nikolov was named 2025 AVCA National Collegiate Player of the Year. The American Volleyball Coaches Association (AVCA) made the announcement on Friday evening at the NCAA Championship Social.

Nikolov joins his older brother Alex Nikolov as just the second player in AVCA history to win both the AVCA Newcomer of the Year and National Collegiate Player of the Year awards in the same season. Making the honor even more unique, the Nikolov brothers are the only sibling pair in AVCA history to win National Player of the Year.

Nikolov becomes the eighth Long Beach State Men’s Volleyball player to earn National Player of the Year honors as he is now part of an elite club that features Long Beach legends Brent Hilliard (1992), Tyler Hildebrand (2006), Paul Lotman (2008), Taylor Crabb (2013), TJ DeFalco (2017, 2019), Josh Tuaniga (2018), and Alex Nikolov (2022).

In a sensational rookie campaign, Nikolov has collected numerous honors and has broken several records. The 6-foot-10 setter out of Sofia, Bulgaria has totaled 97 aces this season to set the Long Beach State program and Big West single-season records. He is just three service aces shy of tying the NCAA single-season aces record. His 97 aces shattered the previous LBSU record set 17 years ago by Paul Lotman (60 in 2008) by nearly 40. In just one season, Nikolov ranks ninth in Long Beach State career records. Additionally, his 0.94 service aces per set leads the nation.

With what is believed to be the fastest recorded serve in NCAA history, Nikolov recorded a career-high eight aces to tie for second in the LBSU single-match record book. That mark is also a new Walter Pyramid single-match record and is good for seventh in the NCAA Record Book for service aces in a five-set match. Additionally, he has led the Beach to 227 aces this year as the 2025 team set a new program record by topping the 2008 squad that had 210 aces in a single-season.

This year, Nikolov has done an excellent job leading Long Beach State to a nation-leading .395 team hitting percentage, which currently ranks third all-time in the NCAA, coming in behind only the 2019 Hawaii squad (.435) and the 2019 LBSU team (.414).

Nikolov has contributed on all sides of the ball with 10.00 assists per set which is good for 14th in the nation and third in The Big West. He leads the Beach with 1.51 digs per set and ranks in the Top 10 in the conference. With 0.76 blocks per set, Nikolov is second on the team and 11th in The Big West. He also chips in on the offensive attack averaging 1.56 kills per set this year.

The AVCA National Collegiate Player of the Year award adds to his already impressive resume that includes AVCA Newcomer of the Year, AVCA All-America First Team, Big West Player of the Year, Big West Freshman of the Year, All-Big West First Team selection, and All-Big West Freshman Team. Earlier this season, Nikolov won The Big West Setter of the Week award three times and The Big West Freshman of the Week honor on seven separate occasions.

Winning the National Player of the Year award as a freshman puts Nikolov in elite company across NCAA Division I athletics. He now joins the short list of Kevin Durant (2007), Anthony Davis (2012), Johnny Manziel (2012), Jameis Winston (2013), Zion Williamson (2019), Paige Bueckers (2021), and Alex Nikolov (2022).

 



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Agyemang, Brown, and Dimit Capture Top Honors in NJAC Outdoor Track & Field All-Conference Teams Announcement

Story Links PITMAN, NJ — #5 Rowan captured three major awards by the New Jersey Athletic Conference in its year-end awards and All-Conference selections in men’s outdoor track & field as the Profs had 28 student-athletes earn honors. Jason Agyemang was named the NJAC Thomas M. Gerrity Most Outstanding […]

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PITMAN, NJ — #5 Rowan captured three major awards by the New Jersey Athletic Conference in its year-end awards and All-Conference selections in men’s outdoor track & field as the Profs had 28 student-athletes earn honors.

Jason Agyemang was named the NJAC Thomas M. Gerrity Most Outstanding Athlete while Jamir Brown was chosen the NJAC Rookie of the Year. Head coach Dustin Dimit and his staff were honored with the Bill Fritz Coaching Staff of the Year by their peers.

All-NJAC honors were determined by finish at the recent NJAC Outdoor Track & Field Championship and major awards were voted on by the league’s nine head coaches.

Agyemang swept the hurdles over the weekend, hitting personal bests and NCAA Division III top-10 times in both the 110 and 400 hurdles events. He ran the second-fastest 110 hurdles time in NCAA Division III this season with a time of 13.74 seconds. That ranks as the third-fastest all-time in D3 history. Agyemang, who was a Week 6 NJAC Track Athlete of the Week, clocked in at of 52.69 seconds in the 400 hurdles to rank as the sixth-fastest in D3 this year.

Brown adds to the sweeps, taking home the outdoor Rookie of the Year honor to add to his indoor top rookie honor. The freshman hurdles sensation clocked a 13.60 in the 110 hurdles preliminary, setting a new NCAA D3 record, conference meet record, and Rowan program record. That time was also the best by a freshman among all NCAA divisions this year. He came in under the old NJAC championship meet record of 13.64 that stood for nearly 25 years, set by Glassboro State’s Garry Moore in 1981. In addition to his top D3 time in the 110 hurdles, he also currently owns the #11 time in the 400 hurdles.
 
Dimit and his staff are named the Bill Fritz Coaching Staff of the Year for the tenth consecutive season as he guided Rowan to its tenth straight outdoor title. The 2025 Profs garnered 10 event wins, nine second-place finishes, and 10 third-place finishes en route to 313 points, which included four podium sweeps. They guided two major award winners in Most Outstanding Athlete Jason Agyemang and Rookie of the Year Jamir Brown, coaching the duo to top all-time D3 times in the 110 hurdles.

Also claiming first-team honors were Joshua Cason (5000 meters), Matthew Conway (10,000 meters), Caleb Clevenger (3000 meter steeplechase), Jamile Gantt (High Jump), Tyler Raimondi (Pole Vault), and Damitrius Hester (Javelin). The 4×100 relay of Dominic George, Robert McKinney, Shamar Love, and Evan Corcoran and the 4×400 relay of Lowrentzky Ambroise, Nana Agyemang, Samael Milevoix, and Luke Halbruner also earned a first-team nod.

Second-team accolades went to Love (100 meters, 200 meters), N. Agyemang (Long Jump), James Coleman (400 meters), Miles Voenell (10,000 meters), Kwaku Nkrumah (110 meter hurdles), Arrington Rhym (High Jump), Max Owens (Pole Vault), and Josh Caudill (Shot)

McKinney (100 meters, 200 meters), Halbruner (400 meters), Cameron DiTroia (10,000 meters), Anaias Hughes (110 meter hurdles), Samuel Agbessi (400 meter hurdles), Noah Wampole (High Jump), Jason Tomaino (Pole Vault), Ian Bain (Discus), and Val Augustin (Decathlon) all scored spots on honorable mention list.

Here is a breakdown of the awards:
Agbessi – HM (400 meter hurdles)
J. Agyemang – 1st (110 meter hurdles), 1st (400 meter hurdles)
N. Agyemang – 1st (4×400 relay), 2nd (Long Jump)
Ambroise – 1st (4×400 relay)
Augustin – HM (Decathlon)
Bain – HM (Discus)
Cason – 1st (5000 meters)
Caudill – 2nd (Shot)
Clevenger – 1st (3000 meter steeplechase)
Coleman – 2nd (400 meters)
Conway – 1st (10,000 meters)
Corcoran – 1st (4×100 relay)
DiTroia – HM (10,000 meters)
Gantt – 1st (High Jump)
George – 1st (4×100 relay)
Halbruner – 1st (4×400 relay), HM (400 meters)
Hester – 1st (Javelin)
Hughes – HM (110 meter hurdles)
Love – 1st (4×100 relay), 2nd (100 meters), 2nd (200 meters)
McKinney – 1st (4×100 relay), HM (100 meters), HM (200 meters)
Milevoix – 1st (4×400 relay)
Nkrumah – 2nd (110 meter hurdles)
Owens – 2nd (Pole Vault)
Raimondi – 1st (Pole Vault)
Rhym – 2nd (High Jump)
Tomaino – HM (Pole Vault)
Voenell – 2nd (10,000 meters)
Wampole – HM (High Jump)

Rowan will head to the Widener Final Qualifier meet on Monday, May 12th before selections to the Division III Outdoor Championships, which get underway on May 22nd in Geneva, Ohio.

 



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